why do i still pine?

[martyj]

Hi i split with my ex in May after a relationshipof 9 months.

 

I was in love with her but it fell apart at the end for various reasons.

 

We fell out after as i accused her of playing with my emotions

 

She left the country on August 3rd for a year and that was that. She doesnt see us getting back so i know its final.

 

I have dated alot of girls since and have realised that damn i loved her so sent an email 2 weeks ago apologising for the bad stuff and that i wish her well and to enjoy her travels.

 

I never received a reply and that was two weeks ago.

 

I am pining for her and want to get by it. Its been 4 months surely i should have moved on just like she has everyday i hope for her to call me or something.

[Does_Darkness_Turn2_Light]

Well I hear you bud. It's tough to lose someone and then not know what they're doing when their thousands of miles away or so. Also not being able to see them, or go to their house. I wish you luck in trying to get her back. I hope it turns around well for you.

[TRAUMA]

sounds to me , she did the rigth thing. moved on ..and what can be better than to travel??(outside the US? even better!)..Your feelings are typical, keep dating. She will be just another experience in your life..soon. Good luck!!!

[martyj]

i have given up trying to get her back and well its more a case of trying to move on and stop p[ining

 

I know i love her but there is no way back

 

a year is along time i suppose not hearing a reply to a mail sent two weeks ago gives me all the answers i need as to how she feels

[martyj]

thanks Trauma

 

I know you are right she moved on but it still hurts to have lost her though

[TRAUMA]

Hey, you did not loose anything..OK..everything happens for the best. it is just another fragment of your life. I know you'll find what will bring you happinness. Good luck!!!

[martyj]

yeah i know you are right dude

 

Just been a long summer dealing with depression and being off work, dealing with the break up and had to give my beloved dog away to family as i wasnt well enough to look after him.

 

So the only way can be up i suppose