Feel like cutting off friendship...

[Mr. Sub]

Here is my broke up story

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It has been six months. It hurts even more than the first date. I had my moments of relapse. But everytime I time of the things she said and done, I feel hurt...anger.

 

Her heart is with me but she couldn't let him go. But why she can just dump me and said her heart wasn't with me??? And she said even the getting back together with him isn't working to way she wants, but still she wants spend time on it since she had tried so hard to get back together. Then she went on saying nothing can guarantee I will make her happy if I have the chance. Even she keeping giving him chances and still not happy. Fair?

 

She insists to be friends, calls me up once in a while to catch up. To a stage where i am getting enough, I don't have respect for her anymore. I don't know what is true and not true coming out from her. I feel like letting go off this friendship all together. Someone please help.

[Tigris]

I'm sorry but it looks like you should forget about her and find someone else who will treat you better.

 

I hope you find somebody soon.

 

Take care of yourself and good luck.

[DN]

This ersatz 'relationship' is causing you more heartache than is reasonable to put yourself through. Drop her and move on.

[RayKay]

There is nothing that says you must be friends with her.

 

In fact, this sounds almost toxic for you at this point, I'd say time to tell her you are moving on and cannot talk to her anymore, you need to take care of yourself.

 

Good luck.

[Cadence308]

I agree with RayKay that this sounds toxic to you and you should let her know that you are moving on and cannot talk to her any more.

 

I hope you start to feel better soon.