John14087 Posted June 23, 2005 Share Posted June 23, 2005 k so heres the scoop. im basically a regular at a bookstore thats located near my house. I buy a book there about once a week and there is this girl that works there. and each time i go to pay for a book, she says "u must read those books pretty fast". so today i bought a book and she says, " are u sure u arent reading these books or just buying them to see me", then turns to the girl next to her and says "this guys in here every week, but really were secret lovers". Ok i know its probably nothing, but is this girl trying to suggest something or bring flirtatious, or am i just being paranoid and if not, how could i act on it? Link to comment
DropToZero Posted June 23, 2005 Share Posted June 23, 2005 Shy!! why is this in the 'shy' post??? lol Man she's flirting with you and you did what to respond to that??? You should have been like "Yea, don't be too full of yourself...You're not that good, plus you're the one tryin to pick me up...just admit it"...and have smiled...that would have been gold. Other than that, she's flirting somewhat with you, so go back, flirt with her and talk for a bit, ask for her number, and leave. Then you can call her in a few days and ask her out...and you'd better DO IT!...why is this in shy...hehe Link to comment
Helpme86 Posted June 23, 2005 Share Posted June 23, 2005 Dude, she is prob after you! Go there and be llike, I was looking through the phone book(book store ) and I did not see your number.... I was wondering what it was. OK, but dont say that. I'm tired and its just something really lame I said. Too bad she does not work in a library, you could be like, hey sometime maybe I can check you out! Ok thats lame too, never say that!! Or you can be like, whats it take to get a discount on some books here?? A dinner and a movie with you? Ok, I'm shutting up now. Well she wants you I'm sure. Or at least wants to chat more..... Link to comment
easyguy Posted June 23, 2005 Share Posted June 23, 2005 Always... no, NEVER use pick up lines. Link to comment
Helpme86 Posted June 23, 2005 Share Posted June 23, 2005 Always... no, NEVER use pick up lines. LOL, yea I'm just messing around. Whoa did you coach football ever? Cause you sure got a tight end! Link to comment
socalguy123 Posted June 23, 2005 Share Posted June 23, 2005 is she cute? is her co-worker cute? Link to comment
easyguy Posted June 23, 2005 Share Posted June 23, 2005 ...then turns to the girl next to her and says "this guys in here every week, but really were secret lovers"?... Did she sound flirtatious/playful or did she say it in with a serious tone of voice? Link to comment
John14087 Posted June 23, 2005 Author Share Posted June 23, 2005 like in a playful tone of voice Link to comment
ComputerGuy Posted June 23, 2005 Share Posted June 23, 2005 She is interested, plain and simple. Ask her out, or next time you're in there buying a book, just say to her "So, what if I am buying all these books as an excuse to see you..." and go from there. On any account you're definitely in with a chance Link to comment
misery12 Posted June 23, 2005 Share Posted June 23, 2005 Haha. The thing that I would do.. is go in, get 2 books..one being the one you want, and the other being something along the lines of "How to ask out the Beautiful Cashier" or something like that. (as a joke of course) Put this book on the counter and stare at her smiling, she will clearly say something.. and just go from there, pick that book up, laugh and give her the real one.. and finish off by saying "so when does your secret lover get to take you out in public?" or something along those lines. Just a suggestion! Good Luck! Link to comment
smallworld Posted June 23, 2005 Share Posted June 23, 2005 "so when does your secret lover get to take you out in public?" Dang... that's good. 8) Link to comment
ComputerGuy Posted June 23, 2005 Share Posted June 23, 2005 Misery12 you are my new pickup line guru Link to comment
John14087 Posted June 23, 2005 Author Share Posted June 23, 2005 also, i was in there like a week earlier and i brought like a 30 dollar book to the front and she decided to take off 10 bucks off the purchase, is this possibly another hint? Link to comment
John14087 Posted June 24, 2005 Author Share Posted June 24, 2005 no because she looked around at first and then pulled something out of a drawer scanned it then whsipered its this much isnt that awesome Link to comment
Helpme86 Posted June 24, 2005 Share Posted June 24, 2005 If I could, I'd be beating you with a "dumb stick" right now!!!!! But I think some one beat me to it! LOL, JK, sorry. She wants you, more over, talk to her man! I dunno what you are waiting for. Link to comment
smallworld Posted June 24, 2005 Share Posted June 24, 2005 no because she looked around at first and then pulled something out of a drawer scanned it then whsipered its this much isnt that awesome John, I think it's cute that you can't see how many BIG HINTS this girl is throwing you. Use Misery12's line and ask that girl out!!! 8) Link to comment
wlfpack81 Posted June 24, 2005 Share Posted June 24, 2005 This girl could just be very friendly. Girls are funny and don't always read too much into the weird signs they show. Link to comment
JRM Posted June 24, 2005 Share Posted June 24, 2005 I would have made a joking crack about her being unprofessional and hitting on guys...maybe even offer to talk after work. EDIT: Btw wlf, lighten up a little. Please don't rub your own unsuccessfulness and self pity on others. Hope is usually better than doubt. Link to comment
socalguy123 Posted June 24, 2005 Share Posted June 24, 2005 is she cute? is her co-worker cute? I repeat--is she cute? Are you attracted to her? OR just flattered by her obvious attraction to you? I mean.. what's stopping you from asking her to join you for a cup of coffee/frappucino at the coffee bar down the street? Link to comment
easyguy Posted June 24, 2005 Share Posted June 24, 2005 If you don't have an attraction towards HER then don't waste her time by trying to flirt and ask her out if you don't want to. Link to comment
John14087 Posted June 24, 2005 Author Share Posted June 24, 2005 well believe me i find her attractive, and i do want to apprach her on it im just not very experienced in the field thats all Link to comment
ComputerGuy Posted June 24, 2005 Share Posted June 24, 2005 Well I think Misery did the hard part for you, coming up with what to say, so now all you gotta do is say it Link to comment
easyguy Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 Do it soon or she will think you aren't interested. Link to comment
John14087 Posted June 25, 2005 Author Share Posted June 25, 2005 i dont think thats true because i see her on the same day every week Link to comment
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