Mr.Lowselfconfidence Posted June 10, 2005 Share Posted June 10, 2005 ok well the girl i like asked me to a movie. naturally i accepted...duh! my question is, how do i know if it is an actual date like thing or just for fun. and what should i do in both cases. like if its a date like thing, should i hold her hand or something? i just need advice since the last time i went to the movies with a girl it came out horrible. thanks! Link to comment
easyguy Posted June 10, 2005 Share Posted June 10, 2005 How long have you two known each other? How is the physical contact between you and her? Do you two flirt at all? Link to comment
DancingHamster Posted June 10, 2005 Share Posted June 10, 2005 Does she give you other signs that she likes you? Does she laugh at all your jokes and stories? Does she touch you on the shoulder or arm? Does she smile at you a lot? Does she get more shy when you talk to her sometimes? Act a little nervous? If she does any and/or all of the above PLUS she asked you to a movie -- she likes you. I don't know if I would go to hand holding yet. Just sit close to her at the movie (without being obnoxious) and watch if she stays near you. If she puts her hand near yours...then I'd take it. Good luck! Link to comment
JRM Posted June 10, 2005 Share Posted June 10, 2005 Who cares whether or not its a real date. Just go, relax, have fun, and treat her like an equal. You being uncomfortable will in turn make her uncomfortable, so dont waste both of your times worrying about anything. Enjoy the movie. Link to comment
Mr.Lowselfconfidence Posted June 10, 2005 Author Share Posted June 10, 2005 good...thanks a lot for your advice...we've known each other for a while now...we talk every day in school...she doesn't tap me on the shoulder...i tap her. she smiles a lot...doesn't get too nervous. anyway thanks for your help about what to do. Link to comment
DN Posted June 10, 2005 Share Posted June 10, 2005 Let us know how it goes. Good luck. Link to comment
Your1Desire Posted June 10, 2005 Share Posted June 10, 2005 Even if it isn't a date, and you like her, make it one! If you want to get a little close to her in the movies and try to get some signals, lean over and whisper things in her ear. Try judging her reponse. Would you ask a girl to the movies who you were not keen on? She took the first step, and for that you're lucky. Make sure you take the next step. Leaving all the work up to her will ruin it for her. You're gonna have to make some moves! Link to comment
Mr.Lowselfconfidence Posted June 12, 2005 Author Share Posted June 12, 2005 well...i dunno if anyone will read this...but the movie went great. we talked a lot. a little bit before and a lot after. she got there first and payed for herself...but i bought her some popcorn. overall it went just as good as i hoped. i didn't really try to hold her hand or anything...i just "enjoyed the movie'. thanks for all of your help! Link to comment
smallworld Posted June 14, 2005 Share Posted June 14, 2005 well...i dunno if anyone will read this...but the movie went great. we talked a lot. a little bit before and a lot after. she got there first and payed for herself...but i bought her some popcorn. overall it went just as good as i hoped. i didn't really try to hold her hand or anything...i just "enjoyed the movie'. thanks for all of your help! So that's what happened! Glad you had a great time. Link to comment
easyguy Posted June 14, 2005 Share Posted June 14, 2005 Yes if you had a great time that's all that matters. Link to comment
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