Ljimunad Posted December 2, 2023 Share Posted December 2, 2023 I'm 20.I started dating with this girl. We went on one date. She was dressed up to nines and super attracted to me. I didn't kiss her on date as I was nervous and scared. I asked her out two times and she had an excuses. Then I didn't contact her for 10days and she reached out. We went again on coffee date but she was less enthusiastic and told me to be friends. After this I didn't reach out but she reached out two times in 10 days and I didn't call her out again because I felt rejected. After one month I called her and she was enthusiastic to hear me. She asked me to come to her restaurant where she is working. I said I will come if I have time on weekend. Then I didn't say to her that I'm coming because I wanted to surprise her. I've came with my friends and she was the waiter. She was acting cold when she saw me and didn't laugh at my jokes or anything. Day after this I texted her something flirty on whatsapp and she told me "Don't talk to me like that. I have a boyfriend". I was trying to have fun text after but she blocked me and unfriended me. Is this over forever. I'm just sad now and I wanted to apologise for playing games with her and not anouncing myself that I will come on Instagram since she blocked me on Whatsapp. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted December 2, 2023 Share Posted December 2, 2023 3 minutes ago, Ljimunad said: We went again on coffee date but she was less enthusiastic and told me to be friends. Day after this I texted her something flirty on whatsapp and she told me "Don't talk to me like that. I have a boyfriend". Unfortunately this didn't go too far. She already mentioned she only wants to be friends. What did you text her on Whatsapp? Apparently she was offended or maybe she does actually have a BF. Either way once someone blocks you, it's better to leave it alone. 1 Link to comment
Ljimunad Posted December 2, 2023 Author Share Posted December 2, 2023 I said 8 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: Unfortunately this didn't go too far. She already mentioned she only wants to be friends. What did you text her on Whatsapp? Apparently she was offended or maybe she does actually have a BF. Either way once someone blocks you, it's better to leave it alone. I said to her that she doesn't need to be angry that we can still be friends and go to cofee and she blocked me. Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted December 2, 2023 Share Posted December 2, 2023 Maybe she decided she's not into women in a romantic way? Link to comment
Ljimunad Posted December 2, 2023 Author Share Posted December 2, 2023 2 minutes ago, Capricorn3 said: Maybe she decided she's not into women in a romantic way? Nah it was just photo from my sister mail. Hahah. I'm male Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted December 2, 2023 Share Posted December 2, 2023 Just now, Ljimunad said: Nah it was just photo from my sister mail. Hahah 🤔 ?? Why on earth would you use your sister's photo?? Does your sister know you do this? Something seems off here. Link to comment
Ljimunad Posted December 2, 2023 Author Share Posted December 2, 2023 17 minutes ago, Capricorn3 said: 🤔 ?? Why on earth would you use your sister's photo?? Does your sister know you do this? Something seems off here. Nah, she doesn't know. It is just photo from her mail google acount because I have her account too. Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted December 2, 2023 Share Posted December 2, 2023 11 minutes ago, Ljimunad said: Nah, she doesn't know. It is just photo from her mail google acount because I have her account too. ok this just gets more and more confusing ..... 😵💫 Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted December 3, 2023 Share Posted December 3, 2023 11 hours ago, Ljimunad said: Nah, she doesn't know. It is just photo from her mail google acount because I have her account too. Wait, what? Are you using your sister's account to message this girl? Why? You're not making much sense. Link to comment
Jaunty Posted December 3, 2023 Share Posted December 3, 2023 In short, it sounds like you're catfishing, she caught on and blocked you. This is the typical sequence of events and I'm sure you know it. Link to comment
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