Just want someone to listen

[brassrat]

Over the past six months, my wife has lost a friendship, our house of worship, is estranged from one of our kids and is barely talking to the other.  The two kids aren't talking to each other either.  Now she's in the hospital having just had brain surgery and she tells me that she doesn't want to go on.  Dizzy all the time from the surgery.  Also tells me that I'm not there for her, that I just don't have it in me.

Right now it's just awful being me.  Thanks for listening.

[boltnrun]

Do you still have contact with your former pastor? Does the hospital have a minister on staff?

I'm so sorry about everything you're going through. 

[Cherylyn]

I'm sorry.  Hopefully,  you will find strength through the power of prayer.  🙏

[Batya33]

5 hours ago, brassrat said:

Over the past six months, my wife has lost a friendship, our house of worship, is estranged from one of our kids and is barely talking to the other.  The two kids aren't talking to each other either.  Now she's in the hospital having just had brain surgery and she tells me that she doesn't want to go on.  Dizzy all the time from the surgery.  Also tells me that I'm not there for her, that I just don't have it in me.

Right now it's just awful being me.  Thanks for listening.

I'm hoping for the best for you and that you can find new sources of support.  I'm so sorry for your and your family's struggles.