Anne.wise Posted December 13, 2022 Share Posted December 13, 2022 I’ve noticed that whenever we are in college and with a group of friends he avoids looking at me or even walking beside me😅 when we are out with a few friends he would walk with me and tease me I really don’t understand him. Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted December 13, 2022 Share Posted December 13, 2022 Maybe he's interested in someone else and doesn't want you to get the wrong idea. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted December 13, 2022 Share Posted December 13, 2022 1 hour ago, Anna21 said: I really don’t understand him. Not to sound harsh, but what is there to understand? With him being a friend, he doesn't seem rude, etc. I think you're expecting more from him, rather than accept the fact that he's only a friend. Am I missing something? Link to comment
Jaunty Posted December 13, 2022 Share Posted December 13, 2022 You're probably reading too much into it. You're friends interacting among a group of other friends. Sometimes he's walking next to you and engaging with you. Other times he's probably conversing with somebody else. It's unlikely he's "avoiding" you. Do you have a crush on him? 1 Link to comment
Cherylyn Posted December 14, 2022 Share Posted December 14, 2022 Perhaps he's self conscious with a group of friends and doesn't want them to think there's something or anything going on between you two. Perhaps he's nervous around the group of friends so he pretends he doesn't know you. Who knows? Appreciate that he prefers a few friends and it's his comfort zone to approach you easily and tease you. If you don't understand him, ask him the next time you're with him without a group of friends. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted December 14, 2022 Share Posted December 14, 2022 18 hours ago, Anna21 said: when we are out with a few friends he would walk with me and tease me .I really don’t understand him. Do you have a crush on him? That's ok. Just ask him to go for a drink or coffee or an event one-on-one. If a man isn't asking you out, whatever else he is or isn't doing can't be deciphered as "signs". Is this the same guy?: https://www.enotalone.com/topic/454836-what-does-it-mean-when-he-notice-your-absence-for-a-moment-in-a-group-sitting/#comment-5771512 Link to comment
Debbiere Posted January 17, 2023 Share Posted January 17, 2023 In fact, this is a fairly common situation. For some reason, in the presence of other people, your good friend becomes different. If you see that your friend can communicate normally with you only when you are alone, and in front of other people he teases you - perhaps he is embarrassed to be friends with you, does not want a negative attitude from these people. Anyway this behavior is strange Link to comment
left due to request Posted January 17, 2023 Share Posted January 17, 2023 Maybe your guy friend has a buddy who wants to be close with you in your group so he's trying not to pay attention to you? This happens quite frequently where a girl never notices someone who maybe interested in the girl. Look around and see when this is happening and who he's with. Link to comment
zomboidcharm Posted February 6, 2023 Share Posted February 6, 2023 Is he closer to other people in the group than you? Do you make any efforts to engage with him that would warrant looking you in the eye or do you also act a bit distant? I've experienced this before and trying to stop overthinking it/being a bit more engaging with the person helped. Could be you're both a bit awkward and mirroring each other. Link to comment
Vyxen Posted March 2, 2023 Share Posted March 2, 2023 He likely is interested in you. Link to comment
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