Her love letters weren't hers...

[saluk]

Trying to be friends with this person is like going to a bar during the coronavirus and hoping you don't get sick.

[gohawks292]

Glad it worked out for you but I can't say that behavior, at least as far as what she and I did, is normal or healthy in any way. It sounds like the two of you are opened and aware about your behaviors and lingering attachments, but are working together to choose one another. Whatever works for you! I think the key there is that you are both aware and consenting. That is not the case with my and my gf, in fact it's been the opposite. All of this behavior has been done behind my back. We did spend Valentines weekend together, it was nice. I am just enjoying the company.

 

Well, I’d didn’t last. Our destructive behaviors got in the way and we needed to be apart.

It just happened last night night...

 

I had an emotional breakdown and i believe i did it subconsciously to make this break easier.

He got worse as far as accusations of me hiding things and cheating on him.

I gave him when he would ignore me and i believe he was just saying he loved me in the end so he can keep using my money....he never once looked for a job or anything. It down on me this past week I’ve been used!!

I’m blocking and deleting him from my life. I feel like i can breath now!!