elliswade10z Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 Hey my ex gf contacted me after a month of no contact asking for a phone number now I'm confused is she reaching out or is it just a normal text for a number and nothing in it? Link to comment
Cope Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 Normal text for a number and nothing in it. Try not to read more into this. Even if it is her reaching out, it's not the reaching out that you want. Does she know you are doing NC? Link to comment
elliswade10z Posted June 19, 2019 Author Share Posted June 19, 2019 No she doesn't know I'm in no contact. Since the breakup we've stayed in contact this is most days with out communicating Link to comment
elliswade10z Posted June 19, 2019 Author Share Posted June 19, 2019 Plus she could of got that number no worries from someone else. Link to comment
zzzz74032343 Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 Plus she could of got that number no worries from someone else. Do you want her back? sounds like she misses you.... Link to comment
elliswade10z Posted June 19, 2019 Author Share Posted June 19, 2019 Why does it sound like she misses me to you? Link to comment
kim42 Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 You will see if she reaches out again and sends more text messages. She could be simply asking for a phone number. Link to comment
elliswade10z Posted June 19, 2019 Author Share Posted June 19, 2019 She just decided to break up with me not sure why Link to comment
Cope Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 There's definitely more to that. If this is all the information you are willing to give out , than my advice can only be to not reply to her message because it's probably just her missing the attention. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 What was the breakup about? Of course you know why. How long were you dating? Was this a number anyone could google or was it a personal number? It sounds like you want her back. If you want no contact to stick, delete her number and block her and all her people from social media. Hey my ex gf contacted me after a month of no contact asking for a phone number now I'm confused is she reaching out or is it just a normal text for a number and nothing in it? Link to comment
elliswade10z Posted June 19, 2019 Author Share Posted June 19, 2019 Ok so she is very abusive towards me and jealous.. a wk before we broke up she was leaving for Chicago for work she left a note and said she was breaking up with me for no reason! I begged and pleaded then I stopped went no contact for a month ..... then that's when she asked for the number as I've said in my message.. cheers☝️ I'm very confused ..#@# Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 Then consider yourself lucky she left. It sounds like a conflicted toxic situation. How long were you dating?Ok so she is very abusive towards me and jealous. Link to comment
Cope Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 Yeah, you dodged a bullet. She just wants your attention back, only to get the toxic cycle going again. Stay away! Link to comment
elliswade10z Posted June 19, 2019 Author Share Posted June 19, 2019 Roughly 3yrs on and off again sir I still have strong feelings for her but I guess I can't keep doing this to myself.... One moment we're great the next I have her high heel stuck in my neck!! Link to comment
elliswade10z Posted June 19, 2019 Author Share Posted June 19, 2019 And to answer ur question sir👍☝️ it was a phone number for the gas bill company!🤷♂️ I know right got me struck out ..... Link to comment
elliswade10z Posted June 19, 2019 Author Share Posted June 19, 2019 Should I pursue her? Need her Link to comment
Cope Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 Should I pursue her? Need her If you like the feeling of her high heels on your neck, sure, go for it! Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 Hope you are trolling when you say you want her back after this:Roughly 3yrs on and off ... One moment we're great the next I have her high heel stuck in my neck!! Link to comment
Rose Mosse Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 If neither of you are on the same page and what you want out of a relationship, it'll continue on a rollercoaster of highs and lows. It doesn't sound like she's comfortable with your friendships or interactions with other women. Jealousy is often a two-edged sword and there are different sides to a story. I've also written this elsewhere - jealousy is also often a litmus test for behaviours we innately believe are wrong or a warning sign for inappropriate situations that are happening or about to happen. I think of it as a sixth sense. It continues to have a bad rep but I think of it in different terms from most people. It can be used as a valuable tool. That's just my take on it. It shouldn't be feared but used intelligently and to improve relationships and bonds. Good luck. Link to comment
ninjabib Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 Run for the hills. This is toxic. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 No she doesn't know I'm in no contact. Since the breakup we've stayed in contact this is most days with out communicating ^ This is confusing. In one breath you're in no contact, in the next you're in contact. Which is it? Link to comment
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