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[Gary Snyder]

For a good relationship, you need a partner with a good attitude, and one who is sane.

[melancholy123]

Ive told her this before: I like being updated if she’s leaving the house, about to sleep or nap or if she’s going to be busy for a long period of time. This is because if I don’t hear from her for a long time, I worry (I’m sure this is normal) so a heads up is nice. If she forgets every now and then, it’s not the end of the world but consistently is a problem for me

 

You do not need to know what she's doing all day long. It's never necessary to know if she's leaving the house or going to be busy. Now if it's time for a nap she can say I'm gonna take a nap, talk to you later, but holy cow the rest of it is controlling on your part. You are not her keeper, she can do whatever she pleases. No it is not normal to want to know what she's doing all or most of all of the time. It is controlling and obsessive and very annoying. Back off and let her have a life without you being in the middle of it with your neediness.

[kamurj]

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