skysurfer Posted April 23, 2019 Author Share Posted April 23, 2019 Well everyone. I have seen a lot of opinions, thoughts and so forth. I actually loved this woman dearly. I just believe it wasn't time for her. She get extremely upset if I looked at another female. She got terribly upset over me PM a a female on Facebook. I knew this female on FB and wanted to simply ask a question. No harm - so I thought. I wanted to make that my GF new about it, so I told her. I had nothing to hide. Well, that flew like a ton of bricks. I told her that yes, me and this female DID dance like a year and half before we met and that I did meet this female at a outdoor tiki bar. Where this woman told me she was married. So that was that. I never saw her again except on Facebook. When I told my GF it was way b4 we met, she asked me how'd I feel if the guy she dated b4 me talked - I said "I don't care. It was b4 me". Anyways, thanks all for opinions. It is over and there's radio silence coming from her end. I would love nothing more than to talk. Doesn't look like it. So - next bus please.... Link to comment
abitbroken Posted April 23, 2019 Share Posted April 23, 2019 Well everyone. I have seen a lot of opinions, thoughts and so forth. I actually loved this woman dearly. I just believe it wasn't time for her. She get extremely upset if I looked at another female. She got terribly upset over me PM a a female on Facebook. I knew this female on FB and wanted to simply ask a question. No harm - so I thought. I wanted to make that my GF new about it, so I told her. I had nothing to hide. Well, that flew like a ton of bricks. I told her that yes, me and this female DID dance like a year and half before we met and that I did meet this female at a outdoor tiki bar. Where this woman told me she was married. So that was that. I never saw her again except on Facebook. When I told my GF it was way b4 we met, she asked me how'd I feel if the guy she dated b4 me talked - I said "I don't care. It was b4 me". Anyways, thanks all for opinions. It is over and there's radio silence coming from her end. I would love nothing more than to talk. Doesn't look like it. So - next bus please.... If you met a lady at a tiki bar and danced with her thinking she was available and then found out she was married - why would you add her on facebook? I was thinking that you asked a question of someone you graduated with, a work colleague or your neighbor - i would totally be on board with you there. I would not be pleased if my guy was friends on social media with someone he had a flirtation with and that was the only real tie for their friendship. Like why even bother with that person? Link to comment
skysurfer Posted April 23, 2019 Author Share Posted April 23, 2019 If you met a lady at a tiki bar and danced with her thinking she was available and then found out she was married - why would you add her on facebook? I was thinking that you asked a question of someone you graduated with, a work colleague or your neighbor - i would totally be on board with you there. I would not be pleased if my guy was friends on social media with someone he had a flirtation with and that was the only real tie for their friendship. Like why even bother with that person? Well, when I met this woman at the tiki bar, she told me that she was married and that her husband was a porn addict. She needed someone to talk to. I felt bad for her. After that, I really never saw her again. She sent me a friend request way before I met my GF (now former). Really, there was NO flirtation, NO feelings for this chick in the first place - NONE. Again, who cares, the past is the past, I danced with her and that WAS it. No sex, no kiss, nothing! My now former GF had communication quite often with her first husband - I never said a word. Never. Because I am sure of myself and don't have trust issues or low self-esteem. So, I didn't care if she talked to her ex husband... Link to comment
abitbroken Posted April 24, 2019 Share Posted April 24, 2019 Well, when I met this woman at the tiki bar, she told me that she was married and that her husband was a porn addict. She needed someone to talk to. I felt bad for her. After that, I really never saw her again. She sent me a friend request way before I met my GF (now former). Really, there was NO flirtation, NO feelings for this chick in the first place - NONE. Again, who cares, the past is the past, I danced with her and that WAS it. No sex, no kiss, nothing! My now former GF had communication quite often with her first husband - I never said a word. Never. Because I am sure of myself and don't have trust issues or low self-esteem. So, I didn't care if she talked to her ex husband... soo...you say there is no flirtation -- but allowing a married woman to confide in you about her marriage is emotional affair territory even if you were not interested. That really crosses a line for her marriage. Its really questionable that you would insert yourself into her situation and try to hang onto her. You must be talking about a different gf because isn't her husband dead? Link to comment
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