Is there any hope left? What should I do?

[Bulldawg2010]

Another update lol.

 

Ex wife unblocks me on Facebook this past Sunday on my birthday. Reblocks me today.

 

I have no idea why, hell I didn’t even know I was unblocked until I got a notification that she had commented on something I had commented on.

 

 

Probably just trying to find out if I’m miserable or not.

[Lester]

The rejected spouse's weak/sour reactions play a major role in the continuing infidelity.

 

Setting her free, and proving it with calm, somewhat aloof happiness undermines their fantasies.

[lostandhurt]

You have done well and I hope you see how big of a bullet you dodged.

 

When you reflect on all this try to look at it as a blessing. She actually did you a favor, sure it hurt at the beginning because of the betrayal but that is was a short lived pain like ripping off a band aid. Could you imagine a lifetime with her now? How awful would that be?

 

Good luck in the Air Force and thank you for your service.

 

Lost

[endy]

You have done well and I hope you see how big of a bullet you dodged.

 

When you reflect on all this try to look at it as a blessing. She actually did you a favor, sure it hurt at the beginning because of the betrayal but that is was a short lived pain like ripping off a band aid. Could you imagine a lifetime with her now? How awful would that be?

 

Good luck in the Air Force and thank you for your service.

 

Lost

 

Yeah, I'm sure it sucks but better now than 10 years down the road. You're still really young. I think you learned... If you're dating someone and they let you know they've cheated or moved on from relationships quickly or had guys on the back burner... that's a red flag. ALWAYS remember if they can cheat on someone else, they can cheat on you.

[GeekJones]

Try a Mediation . Some one who will help you for mutual consent.

[FluffyDream]

Like everyones said I think you avoided what could have been a real mess this happening when it did. And hats off to you not buckling under the pressure of her reaching out for you after her own mess with this 37 year old.

 

Onwards and upwards, you're onto better things in life.

[Charliehorse]

Buddy I am so impressed with how you handled the whole situation,so often

there are men or women in your situation that are told why they should

not put up with such nonsense and they say but,but,but and they just

keep digging a hole for their ex to bury them in.

Consider yourself a role model on how a person should react when

confronted with issues like this.

 

Peace be with you

 

And thank you for your service in advance.