Am I looking too much into it????

[RyanJ64]

So brief background. My ex and i were together for a year and a half. We broke up and after 4 weeks apart I (while drunk) slept with someone else, i told my ex instantly about it not to hurt her but to be honest because i wanted her back and what happened was a huge huge huge mistake.

My ex spent 6 months telling me "not saying no just not now". In that time she was on tinder and making out with guys at clubs, but i still had hope. I went on a few friendly dates with her and also organised her surprise 21st (was organising it before we broke up). I went a little crazy wanting to know the truth and she eventually told me no, she never wants to be with me now and in the future.

 

So here it is... what my post is about. Its been over 4 months since i last saw her or spoken to her. A few nights ago we had a mutual friends party. My ex called me the night before to talk to me about something. We were on the phone for 2 hours chatting and laughing. The party was a little weird but ok, didnt talk much. On my way home from that party i called her just to chat, we were on the phone for over an hour which was good.

I invited her to come see my new place and she accepted. She came by the next night and we had dinner. It got weird for me because she wanted to show me the scratch marks her dogs gave her really high on her leg. She showed me basically her whole leg plus some underwear and asked if i wanted to touch it (the scratches),

I declined because i didnt want to relapse with my feelings to her. She also seemed quite impressed with several changes ive made in my life.

 

Does she have feelings for me? Am i reading too much into this?? Is it worth pursuing??????

 

Please any help would be great.

[SweetGirl28]

You first need to figure out what it is you want, and when you are certain, just tell her ask her what she wants.

Why play games and waste time wondering when you can just ask?

[DanZee]

Well, I know why you didn't ask her about her feelings. You were afraid she's shoot you down. But at least you would know and you could stop beating around the bush and either you try again or you move on.

[Wiseman2]

Stop hanging out with her in the friendzone. You need to go no contact and delete and block her. Believe her:

she eventually told me no, she never wants to be with me now and in the future.

[IndianaBones]

Stop hanging out with her in the friendzone. You need to go no contact and delete and block her. Believe her:

 

But why would she want him to touch her? :o That's so odd