rubys Posted February 10, 2018 Share Posted February 10, 2018 I’ve been dating a guy for a month or so, he’s everything I’d look for in a guy, super caring, loads of time for me, generous etc. I definitely fancied him, but something inside me wouldn’t allow myself to do anything more than lust after him. We had a massive heart to heart last night. We talked about our childhoods, parents, grandparents, I told him my ex and I broke up because he wanted to move away and I didn’t. He then told me that although his job is great in the city we’re currently in, it’s not what he wants to do forever. He wants to move to London to work for a much more prestigious organisation. We then had amazing sex, twice. It was close and coupley. I couldn’t sleep last night while he was still in my bed, post sex, because I had such a panic that I was getting myself into something that wasn’t going to end well, and I wasn’t all that interested anyway, so we chatted it out, and he said he really liked me as a person so would love to be friends. I said that would be fab! We agreed to catch up soon, and if the friends with benefits situation arose, we’d make the most of it. Now, he’s left, and all of a sudden I feel devastated, as if I’ve let the best guy go! It seems like since I’ve been honest with him, it’s made me more attracted to him! Help! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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