confusedsister Posted February 5, 2018 Share Posted February 5, 2018 Hi everyone! I'll try and keep this post short. Basically, my 23/M boyfriend's dad made me feel super awkward and embarrassed last night at a family party and I want to know if I'm overreacting. So, last night we went to his cousins bday party and my BF and I were hanging out, obviously. Then his dad comes over to us halfway through the party and asked my BF if he wanted a beer. My BF said yes, then his dad said "then go get it yourself". My BF said he was comfy with me and asked his dad if he could bring it, and his dad said "What? you can't leave your girlfriend for one minute to go get it yourself?" I was confused since he kind of offered in the first place, but chose to ignore it since he's known to start conflict. So, 10-15 mins passed and my BF was still outside. I felt a little tension and didn't want anymore comments being made, so I chose to stay inside. But his cousin invited me outside and I said yes. When I went outside, my BF called me over and I went and his dad immediately started saying in a stern non-joking voice "oh my god, can I have like one minute alone with my son" and I just ignored him, then he kept going (addressing everyone) saying "oh, she's not going to take it as a joke, she's going to take it seriously and get her feelings hurt" and I just replied saying "yeah." and he started mimicking my voice saying "yeah. she's like this guy hahahah" and i asked my BF if we could just go outside to talk. I don;t know. He made me feel super awkward and made me feel like I was being clingy when we were engaging in conversation with everyone the whole night. I chose to stay because I hate creating conflict/drama and I always turn the other cheek. But it just really got to me because it seemed like it wasn't a joke and it was more personal. His dad does complain a lot that my boyfriend doesn't spend enough time with them, although he lives with them and they hangout at least 1-3 times a week.Do you think I'm overreacting for feeling upset and not wanting to be around his dad? Link to comment
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