He did a 180 and left

[annie24]

He did not love you, or he would not have dumped you.

 

If someone is telling you that they love you 3-4 weeks into knowing you, it should set off red flags. Then we have the marriage and kids bit, under a year. Huge red flags. This is call fast forwarding and love bombing. This never had a chance. Healthy relationships do not move at this pace.

 

The new girl will experience the same. Once the shininess of the new relationship wears off, he bolts.

 

Block and delete this creep. I can guarantee that he will reach out, once he dumps her.

 

Yes, I agree. People who warm up quickly seem to cool off just as quickly. I'm sorry. I would not be surprised at all if this new girl is kicked to the curb in 4-6 weeks herself.

 

Hang in there.

[Hollyj]

Yup that has crossed my mind as a possibility. Isn't it weird he insisted on having a dinner with me a week after he broke up with me!? To tell me the same lies, and act concerned about me.

 

Not at all. It is about how ego.

 

Stop focusing on this guy. You cannot diagnose or ever understand what is in his head. Focus on you, and how you ignored all of the red flags.

[Traceee]

Holly,

I have been doing a lot of reading on this site. What's your thoughts on future faking and fast forwarding as it pertains to my case?

 

 

https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/understanding-why-someone-fakes-a-future-with-you/