Smalltownsyndr Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 Where to even begin... I got married just over a year ago. Prior to the marriage there were some red flags that I probably shouldn't have let go (Craigslist visits, a lot of porn watching) but never the actual act of cheating so I thought maybe it was harmless and he would grow out of it. Not even a year into our marriage I discovered that he had cheated on me. But not with just anyone, with an escort. He wanted to cheat so bad he was willing to pay for it. When confronted, he brought up a lot of child hood trauma and immediately seeked counseling and swore up and down he would change. Me being the empathetic person that I am, gave him another chance. It is 5 months later and I have now discovered he is paying for webcam sex. He is now claiming he thinks he has a sex addiction and wants to go back to counseling for this. I feel like I have given him enough chances to change. Walking away should be easy, but I am walking away from someone I have considered a best friend for the last decade. Am I over reacting thinking the webcam incidence is bad enough to end it after what I have already forgiven for? Link to comment
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