Meowgi Posted January 11, 2018 Share Posted January 11, 2018 I had just gotten back from a trip in the UK and I had brought back with me some gifts and souvenirs for them, so we decided to meet up at my place on the 27th of December to just chill and exchange our gifts from the holidays, everything was fine and all and our friendship has been solid for the past 3 years with barely any arguments or hassle, we could talk and do everything together and we treated each other like family, but ever since they left my house they all a sudden proceeded to block me on multiple social media platforms and despite my attempts at establishing some communication they have ignored all my messages. 1 Girl has blocked me on everything possible while the other girl whom I admit I am much much closer to (this is probably just blind optimism) hasn’t blocked me on other platforms like Line/FB. They mean a lot to me and I can’t seem to get my head around to understand why they decided to block me out of their lives and seemingly without hesitation.. was it all pre planned? I now just feel lost and betrayed.. could really use some advice here on what I should or should not do, I really want to try to fix our relationship if possible and I’ve been trying to figure out if it was possible if I had offended them in anyway possible but I can’t seem to pinpoint any causes. My daily life has been essentially ruined because they have always been my support pillars for the past few years and as time goes on I’m slowly getting more and more depressed, please help I’ll appreciate any and all advice on what I can do. I know one instance where in the past they have blocked other friends but in time they unblocked them but that took almost a few months, in this case I’m not sure if they’d do the same for me and even if they did would they ever be interested in getting things back to the way they were.. I have so many thoughts running in my head that I can’t seem to function anymore. A part of me wants to believe that they are like testing me to see how far I would go because I recall that they once said that they would “break up” with their bf at least once to see whether the guy would fight for the relationship and to see whether they were crazy but this might just be me reading too far into it. And we don't get to see each other on a daily basis either we've graduated into different schools so meeting up is an issue, I do however know roughly when and where I can possibly catch them and try to get them to talk to me or is that inappropriate? TLDR: Bestfriends came over to my place, nothing went wrong and everything was ok but after leaving they have chosen to remove me from their lives. Need help on what steps I should take to either fix the friendship or move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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