macdonner Posted December 31, 2017 Share Posted December 31, 2017 Good idea or rushing it?? I live in Spain and we have been resident for 6 plus years. As stated before in previous threads, OH has said he wants a divorce and as we were married in Scotland thought we would have to wait the year. From what i've just been reading, in Spain it is possible to get a divorce after 3 months of being married if you are resident (although it does say it relates to English and Welsh laws, can't find anything specific about Scottish law and divorces in Spain). I've had a few drinks with it being NYE and also with the news he has moved on after only 5 months (if not before, was suspicious as on FB I could only see mutual friends of his on his profile, so now thinking he had set it somehow so that I could not see OW as a friend and he has known her longer.....maybe I am just inventing that but seems to fit as he never tried to change settings after I pointed it out one argument lol), so should I email him with a link to show he can get the precious divorce he wants a lot sooner than he wanted?? He wants it after 20 years so why not give it to him.... with stipulations of course.......I can't fight any more and if I'm honest as much as it hurts, he changed so much and is so selfish I'm better off starting again. if 20 years holds no value and he can see someone soon after me and his kids obviously very much old news and not what he wants. Link to comment
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