Thecheesecake1 Posted November 25, 2017 Share Posted November 25, 2017 I lived with two girls and one guy from Sept 2013- June 2014. We all gelled with each other immediately and formed a tight bond. I especially bonded with Girl 2 and we became very close from 2013-2016. Girl 1 and I got on but clashed due to the fact that we were similar and one drunken night we admitted to liking the guy we lived with. I managed to brush off my feelings for him as I did NOT wanna fall out with Girl 1 and found they had better chemistry and as it goes, neither of us ended up with him. Late 2014 I ended up with a guy who I was in a 2 year relationship with and during this year, I became less attached to the three housemates. It ended in hell. I became very antisocial, unwell and generally independent. Fast forward to 2017, girl 1+2 remained close but added me to a group chat where we all seemed to form the strong bond again, I apologized for being elusive whilst with my ex and for MONTHS we have been chatting frequently, helping one another etc..these girls are very sweet, encouraging and genuine. Recently Girl 2 (the one I was closest to) suggested we do all do a road trip along with the guy we lived with.. I was surprised as I felt we all hadn't met in a while and it may be awkward but, decided that I was lucky to have them both back after being distant. Girl 2 private messaged me 2 weeks ago with the date (this weekend) and said she was super excited but said no more details etc... They've both been quiet recently and tonight Girl 2 PERSONALLY snapped me a picture of the two girls getting ready in none other than the guys house. I was hurt, but more confused at the gesture; me and the guy didn't speak in a year so I didn't care whether he wanted to see me or not but, after countless invites and conversation, I can't think what I did wrong? After two hours of fighting tears I've told myself it's my fault for unintentionally distancing myself back in 2015/2016 or simply that "I'm not wanted". I didn't suggest this, neither did I dispute it... Link to comment
Pleasedonot5 Posted November 25, 2017 Share Posted November 25, 2017 Do you honestly think they did that to spite you? It sounds like they are getting ready for the trip with you? Maybe we're missing some essential details. Link to comment
Thecheesecake1 Posted November 25, 2017 Author Share Posted November 25, 2017 They didn't speak to me ever since they finalized the date... Nor tell me where we were meeting ... Link to comment
Pleasedonot5 Posted November 25, 2017 Share Posted November 25, 2017 They didn't speak to me ever since they finalized the date... Nor tell me where we were meeting ... Can you ask them? Is it possible that they are maybe wondering where you are at / if you'll be coming? Link to comment
rosephase Posted November 25, 2017 Share Posted November 25, 2017 Why do you assume that they are messing with you? Ask them what’s up. Link to comment
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