J1029 Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 My boyfriend currently of 3 years and i took a break for about 2 months in april of this year. We got back together in july . During the time we were broken up he slept with someone else and about a week later she was pregnant . He just told me he had slept with someone else a few days ago, both him and her are denying it is his . From what i have been told she had slept with about 6 other people at that time and also has a boyfriend of her own which is likey why she is denying that it is my boyfriends baby. We have a child together who turned 1 in september of this year. I know i cant really be mad at him for sleeping with someone since we were not together at the time but for him to lie about this for months is completely different . I wanted to try and make our relationship work but that was before i knew there was a chance that he could have gotten her pregnant . Which i will not know for sure until the baby is born next year. I am lost as to what i should do ? Any advice? Link to comment
j.man Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 Cross your fingers. Also wait until he can be adequately screened for STDs before having unprotected sex with him if he goes off barebacking with strange women on a whim. Link to comment
J1029 Posted October 5, 2017 Author Share Posted October 5, 2017 Thing is i found out months after so i had no knowledge so both of us will need to be tested. Hoping for the best. By" he just told me he slept with someone else a few days ago " i meant He told me about it 2 days ago Link to comment
figureitout23 Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 Not much you can do. I mean think about it, there's literally nothing you can do besides walk away. You broke up, it's unfortunate he decided to bone chicks without a rubber, but you decided to take him back... it's now your cross to bear. It sucks, a lot, but it's a choice. Either stand by it or walk away. All this demanding he be honest and stressing isn't going to change the fact that he possibly made a child. Just don't be like those new girlfriends on the Maury show embarrassing themselves please. Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 They slept together, and one week later, she already knew she was pregnant? I think it's far more likely that she was already pregnant when they had sex, unless they're not being honest about the timeline. Anything is possible, but it sounds a little fishy. All you can do is wait until the baby can have a DNA test. Are you prepared to stay if it is his? Are you able to wait that long to find out? Link to comment
J1029 Posted October 5, 2017 Author Share Posted October 5, 2017 When we got back together i had no knowledge of it at all until this week literally . But i do know what you mean , also i believe i wont be able to stay if it is his, till then we will co-parent. Sorry i have no clue how to reply to comments Link to comment
hyden Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 also i believe i wont be able to stay if it is his, till then we will co-parent. Even if it is his and you chose not to stay, you will still co-parent the child you have with him. I am confused by this statement. Link to comment
tattoobunnie Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 It's impossible to know you are pregnant within one week of having sex. It's science. Until a DNA test proves it, I bet he is not the father! Link to comment
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