Maxx82 Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 I am engaged to the woman of my dreams. After a couple dates I told everyone I was going to marry her. She told her friends the same. My only hang up was I always was uncomfortable that her most recent ex was still her friend. In July I found out he had been sending her messages from June-July wanting her back. She told me of her own volition. I told her that wasn't cool at all and she "unfriended" him on Facebook. Well he messaged again asking her to come get her things from his house because he was moving and she had things still there. He was not happy I came with her. I finally confronted him after he sent her pics of old love notes. Well after a random discussion about a friends relationship woes it came out she hooked up with him after we had been dating a month. We hadn't had the "relationship" talk but by what I said above it seemed a forgone conclusion. I don't know how to deal with this. She FINALLY blocked him from all communication after saying she couldn't talk to him anymore but...is this cheating? It's a gray area and the biggest thing is can I stop thinking about it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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