sjb6050 Posted August 20, 2017 Share Posted August 20, 2017 Hey gang I just began working at a new job within the last 3 weeks and needless to say the culture is great/a little insane at times. Very raunchy office but also motivating and fun. I met a girl I was very into within 2 weeks of working there and she was showing me major signs of attraction along the way (touching me unnecessarily, saying everything i said was funny, sexual innuendos, etc...) Took her on a drinks and dinner date last week and then back to my place where we talked further, had drinks and sex (was amazing) She raved about the experience and said that the way I made love to her "Changed her outlook on sex because of how passionate it was" Otherwise, our date was amazing, lots of things in common, conversation flowed easily, no real awkward moments, total beautiful connection. It has lead me to internally become enamored with her but I would never show it. I am taking things casually and am a Corey Wayne disciple so I am being patient. When at work a couple days after our date people indicated how "she can be sometimes" and that other people in the office have maybe slept with her before. My internal reaction was kind of a punch in the gut although I know it isn't any kind of commentary on myself nor something she ISNT allowed to do. I guess I am just afraid of getting really hung up on this woman as she checks most of my boxes. She even was talking about future things we could do together and tested me multiple times with relationship type ideas. Again, I've played it 100% cool since then, waited for 2 days until she reached out to me about something and took the opportunity to make a 2nd date to which she accepted and seems excited about, I am afraid of creating a self fulfilling prophecy psyching myself out about her potentially sleeping with other guys while with me even though we did seem to have a unique connection that she even acknowledged multiple times. She said she told me things she doesn't tell many people and loves that she doesn't feel judged around me. Plus I haven't been all "friendy" with her. I know how good of a man I am and eventually I feel like I want a relationship with this woman (it would only be initiated by her) but I'm trying to remain calm. How do you guys deal with this typically? Pretty sure I'm strong enough to do so but have down moments. Thanks Link to comment
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