Frenchiegirl81 Posted August 11, 2017 Share Posted August 11, 2017 I have met someone I like for the first time since my divorce: Me - 35. Left husband after 15 years. No kids. Separated 9 months. Have dated but nothing serious Him -39, married 10 years, 4 year old daughter. Separated a year. Caught wife having innapropriate contact with a work colleague and left her. They are nearly divorced. We have only been seeing each other once a week for 6 weeks. We text every day, as much as each other. We text to update each other on stuff that happens in our life and it feels very natural and no games being played. It is almost impossible to see each other more that once a week when you factor in he has his child 3 nights a week, I travel away with work and we both have busy jobs and social life. We get on really well, have fun, laugh, have loads in common and have agreed we won't pursue anything with anyone else at the moment. However, he is keen to keep saying 'I don't want to rush into anything, I don't want to be pressured into marriage like I was last time'z (I have only just started my divorce so I am not giving that impression!!) He says nice, complimentary things to me and is affectionate when we are together but I definitely feel I am being held at arms length and he is reluctant to give me any sign that we are doing anything other than dating and 'having fun' for now. He had said 'he is scared'. For those that have dated after divorce, I feel such a novice. Is this normal from a guy at this point in his life?? Link to comment
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