anon2021 Posted July 2, 2017 Share Posted July 2, 2017 if you've seen my previous posts, you'll know my boyfriend has become unsure on our relationship. To me, it makes no sense. We have been so happy together recently, he has been completely normal and loving towards me -- there's been no sign of him having mixed feelings. Until we had an argument and he then said how he "loves me but the relationship doesn't feel right". That hurts SO much because I thought we were so close, after that he told me he didn't mean it and we were fine - he had sex with me and everything that following night, the next day I could tell he was being weird again and ah he did mean what he said about being unsure. After, we said we wouldn't talk for the rest of the weekend (this was said on Saturday) and meet Monday to come to a decision, although the choice is clearly in his hands. He text me at 12 at night (he had been out with friends) and said how he "can't meet me at 12 tomorrow because he needs sleep", I told him he got the day wrong and we're meeting Monday anyway; then I couldn't help but tell him how much I love him and how much this is hurting me, the convo ended with me saying "I love you" and him saying it back. I don't think he meant it but he feels guilty... Today, still no communication except from 3pm when he sent me a photo of himself with a jokey caption, I could see he was out with his friends. Why would he send me a photo of him acting normal considering everything happening between us. I've received a lot of advice from family and friends, most importantly my parents think he is "letting me down gently" and "stringing me along". They think he's been unsure on the relationship for a while but doesn't have the guts to end it. I feel so hurt and abandoned, my boyfriend was all I had. He was my best friend and boyfriend in one... the thought of him moving on with another girl makes me feel sick, I doubt it will take him long to either. I now feel like there were signs but I accepted his excuses thinking nothing of it, such as him spending less time with me during the day and instead at night when it suits him... I had to keep nagging for him to stay at mine for once instead of me at his... He seemed distracted with me, always on his phone. Despite that, I didn't pay much attention to it because at the end of the day I knew he loved me because he told me; he would cuddle me, kiss me, we'd be close and things were good. Point is, I am hurting. I'm expecting to be broken up with tomorrow and I don't want to beg for him to stay although a part of me wishes we could just got back to normal but I can feel he doesn't care or love me as much as he used to. I feel like it's best if I just agree we both move on but I feel so mugged off and abandoned, this truly isn't what I want. Please help? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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