Codi88 Posted June 10, 2017 Share Posted June 10, 2017 I am currently in No Contact- most posts I read talk about No Contact but don't always say why they are initiating it... in some cases it is because the person is trying to GENUINELY move on but often this isn't the case. For me personally, it's a bit of both. I am trying to move on, but at the same time, I can't help but wonder if having space from my ex can be a positive thing and perhaps it will bring us to a point where we could consider starting afresh. I'm just curious to see other's thoughts on this as I read about NC on here all the time so I wonder why you would genuinely (Be honest) initiate it and what the outcome is. In my experience, my ex and I have been here before and anytime I have enforced NC, he usually contacts me with a change of heart. We were together for 5 years and deep down I still hold a flame for us. Neither of us are dating (as far as he's told me, I could be wrong but I doubt it). At this point I genuinely do not have an expectation. It's more hope than expecting anything. So like I said, I have stopped contacting him and stopped him from seeing anything I'm doing (without blocking him) as a way of helping this process be easier. We haven't managed to have a single conversation since our split that hasn't resulted in an argument so this was the best move I could make, I think. I know I've gone on a lot but I do want to get back to my original point about why some of you initiate No Contact... Link to comment
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