Anonjr Posted April 10, 2017 Share Posted April 10, 2017 Hey need some advice i have been dating my ex for almost 2years on and off im currently 6 months pregnant with his baby for the second time and we broke up about 3weeks ago his already post pp of his new girlfriend took her to his parents house and posting on fb and commenting he loves her is this real? I cant imagen him with someone else and i dont know this new guy all of this is unlike him...help pkz Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted April 10, 2017 Share Posted April 10, 2017 Sorry to hear this. Do you live together? Was this planned? On/off is a red flag that he still wants to play the field. 2years on and off im currently 6 months pregnant with his baby for the second time and we broke up about 3weeks ago Link to comment
BeenThereB4 Posted April 10, 2017 Share Posted April 10, 2017 This is why it is not a good idea to have kids with a man to whom you are not married. Boyfriends don't have anything invested in the relationship, so they can leave more easily. I'm sorry that you are in such an awful predicament and hope you make better choices in the future. Link to comment
Raggie Posted April 10, 2017 Share Posted April 10, 2017 Whatever happens, he is still liable for child support. Have you two discussed arrangements now you have split? Link to comment
Anonjr Posted April 10, 2017 Author Share Posted April 10, 2017 No we was not living together first pregnancy was not planned bt he wanted a baby Link to comment
Anonjr Posted April 10, 2017 Author Share Posted April 10, 2017 Its not about the support money im well enough to handle it on my own i want him with me raising our child we were suppose to get married this year Link to comment
abitbroken Posted April 10, 2017 Share Posted April 10, 2017 I would go to an attorney and establish sole custody of your first child and get advice about your second. I would set up for the grounds as to how or when he can see your children - strike before he does. You say you don't "need" the money, but he's legally obligated to pay it and help support the child. You will certainly be on maternity leave and not collecting a check for a few weeks and the child needs an education. I would cut all contact with him except what is legally necessary and only about the kids. I am so sorry that he's such a weenie and ducks out with a kid on the way. On the other hand, I would never have given him the opportunity with me to have a second child after the first one until you married. Link to comment
Anonjr Posted April 11, 2017 Author Share Posted April 11, 2017 Our first child was a Miscarriage and i didnt plan on getting pregnant again pregnancy happened a month after the miscarriage.... Link to comment
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