kys48 Posted March 29, 2017 Share Posted March 29, 2017 I've (30F) been dating a guy (40M) for about 2.5 months now (have not discussed exclusivity yet) and it's been going great. We've been seeing each other once a week, slept over each other's place and generally spend the next day together if neither of us has plans. I've met some of his coworkers and he was holding my hand or had his arms around my shoulders the entire time. His parents know of me and things generally seemed to be progressing. We talk on the phone about once a week but otherwise keep in touch over text between dates. He initiates contact most of the time and we haven't had a day where we haven't been in some sort of contact since we have been seeing each other. Things seemed to be going great right? He just returned from a 1 week business trip last Wednesday evening (he texted me the entire time he was there) and I asked him if he was available last Saturday to hang out. He replied that he was working and asked what I was doing on Friday instead. I told him I'd be available Friday evening but he replied he was working that night (he works most weekends) but didn't offer an alternative. I know I'm being ridiculous, but I have this gut feeling that he is slowly starting to back off. He still texts me every day but hasn't asked me out and it's been almost 3 weeks since we have seen each other. I've already asked him out and don't really want to push it again. Is he slowly losing interest? I was injured recently and bed ridden so I'm alone with my thoughts and it's making me sad, because this is the first time I met someone where I didn't have to doubt whether or not he liked me and this is throwing me for a loop. Thank you for reading my long winded post, appreciate any feedback you guys might have! Link to comment
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