lorocks Posted March 23, 2017 Share Posted March 23, 2017 Need advice on how to make my girlfriend miss me... Link to comment
Doc Blaze Posted March 23, 2017 Share Posted March 23, 2017 Why do you want your gf to miss you? This is a very broad question. Link to comment
lorocks Posted March 23, 2017 Author Share Posted March 23, 2017 I want her to miss me and know my worth without her thinking im taking her for granted and she wont find someone else Link to comment
lorocks Posted March 23, 2017 Author Share Posted March 23, 2017 Why do you want your gf to miss you? This is a very broad question. I also want to know if she will really miss me Link to comment
KMO7970 Posted March 23, 2017 Share Posted March 23, 2017 We all want that from our exes, especially in the early post-breakup stages. The only advice I have is the same thing you would find if you googled it: stop contacting her. She won't miss you if you're still "around" and this means cutting social media ties as well. Completely unoriginal advice, but we really can't make other people feel anything, you know? Link to comment
lorocks Posted March 23, 2017 Author Share Posted March 23, 2017 We did not break up....we're still in relationship Link to comment
Betterwithout Posted March 23, 2017 Share Posted March 23, 2017 is she your current girlfriend or ex girlfriend? Link to comment
lorocks Posted March 23, 2017 Author Share Posted March 23, 2017 Shes still my girlfriend Link to comment
lorocks Posted March 23, 2017 Author Share Posted March 23, 2017 is she your current girlfriend or ex girlfriend? Yes shes still mu girlfriend Link to comment
Betterwithout Posted March 23, 2017 Share Posted March 23, 2017 It sounds like you want your girlfriend to be super excited to see you again. Perhaps to relive the exciting times when you first meet them. The best advice is to develop your own self. Working out, learn a new skill, take a course, join a sports team, church group, volunteer, etc. Once you are reaching your own peak, two things happen 1) Your confidence level is high (just don't be arrogant or cocky about it) 2) You are more desirable and interesting. Do these things and your girlfriend will miss you more. further reading: Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. Link to comment
lorocks Posted March 23, 2017 Author Share Posted March 23, 2017 We're almost seeing each other...will no contact be helpful? Link to comment
Capttrae Posted March 23, 2017 Share Posted March 23, 2017 We're almost seeing each other...will no contact be helpful?[/ If you want to run her off then by all means go no contact that's a good way of gettin shet of her. Just gettin her to miss you, might want to try something no quite so drastic. Try not being there at her ever beck and call, let her know you have your own life. Make her a part of your life but not your whole life. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted March 23, 2017 Share Posted March 23, 2017 If she cheated is with this guy and broke up with you then you need to go not contact. Not to get her back but to spare yourself this pain.i have a problem with my girlfriend. We're going to 8 yrs relationship this may. Suddenly i discovered that she is chatting someone not from our place for a period of time. When i discovered it i immediately confront her then she decided to break up with me but i did not accept it. She also did not force the break up and i told her i will not give up and i've done everything i could but she is still with that i guy right now and we also are still together. how should i handle this? Link to comment
lorocks Posted March 23, 2017 Author Share Posted March 23, 2017 If she cheated is with this guy and broke up with you then you need to go not contact. Not to get her back but to spare yourself this pain. We did not break up at all Link to comment
Tanzi Posted March 23, 2017 Share Posted March 23, 2017 We did not break up....we're still in relationship So why do you feel the need to make her miss you? We're almost seeing each other...will no contact be helpful? What do you mean you're "almost seeing each other"? I thought she was your girlfriend. I'm confused. Going no contact is usually reserved for when you have broken up with someone. It isn't something you should need/want to do when you are in a relationship. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted March 23, 2017 Share Posted March 23, 2017 If she's with the other guy when you are apart she won't miss you. However do not be there for her, chase her or be a backup plan or in the friendzone.Need advice on how to make my girlfriend miss me... Link to comment
lorocks Posted March 23, 2017 Author Share Posted March 23, 2017 I mean we're seeing each other almost everyday...shes not seeing the other guy they didnt meet yet...they are chatting each other Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted March 23, 2017 Share Posted March 23, 2017 Do you to school together? So she's just talking to this guy but you are still together?I mean we're seeing each other almost everyday...shes not seeing the other guy they didnt meet yet...they are chatting each other Link to comment
lorocks Posted March 23, 2017 Author Share Posted March 23, 2017 What im doing right now is that i lessen my time texting and calling her...i also lessen my effort, also not asking her seeing each other...will this be ok or it could just worsen everything? Link to comment
lorocks Posted March 23, 2017 Author Share Posted March 23, 2017 Do you to school together? So she's just talking to this guy but you are still together? They have a relationship but not personally the guy is from very far place...we are both working now Link to comment
lorocks Posted March 23, 2017 Author Share Posted March 23, 2017 Do you to school together? So she's just talking to this guy but you are still together? Lets say they are chatmate...yes we are still together and most of the time we are together especially if we have free time Link to comment
ShatteredMan Posted March 23, 2017 Share Posted March 23, 2017 Lorocks: You're getting played. Don't contact her anymore. Link to comment
lorocks Posted March 23, 2017 Author Share Posted March 23, 2017 Lorocks: You're getting played. Don't contact her anymore. How would you know?by the way we are on a 7 years relationship... Link to comment
Jibralta Posted March 23, 2017 Share Posted March 23, 2017 You have to resort to manipulating your girlfriend into missing you? Maybe it's time to move on from relationship. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted March 23, 2017 Share Posted March 23, 2017 Spend less time together, that's the only way.Need advice on how to make my girlfriend miss me... Link to comment
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