Yober Posted March 21, 2017 Share Posted March 21, 2017 First I would like to thank anyone ahead of time who is willing to take time out of their day to reply to this, as for months I have been having a strong emotional battle with myself. I am a 17 year old male, junior in highschool. A little over a year ago after dealing with rough relationships in the past, I finally moved on and found a girl that I thought I could really make something last with. Since we have started dating, she has struggled with very chronic depression and anxiety, and she carries a horrible self image. Throughout the relationship I have done anything in my power to support her, and make her feel better. Unfortunately, her depression would usually outweight any of my efforts, and it would lead to arguments over the smallest and petty things. It got to the point where she would completely shut me out at times, so stuck in her own world and we would go days without talking. After this going on for months and months, the relationship seems to be on an endless downward spiral. Majority of things I do are wrong in her eyes, and she expects me to change a lot of things about myself and my personality. On the inside I feel as if she only loves me because I am there for her, since she doesn't really have any friends. I feel she wants me simply because I am there in general, not because I am actually what she wants. I have a lot of trouble telling what is causing the problems majority of the time, as her parents degrade her with mean comments, she has little to no friends, her anxiety makes school very hard on her, and she constantly gets angry at me for things she feels I do wrong. Today she described it as "a sour relationship" and preceded to degrade herself and say how i never loved her and how nobody will ever love her and she is worth nothing and everything in her life is wrong. She told me that she is done talking to me, and if i want the relationship to continue then i need to figure something out. I am emotionally torn and confused over this whole situation, and this paragraph being all over the place probably makes it noticeable. I would love for input and advice on the situation, as I truly feel lost inside. If you would like me to explain more about the situation or elaborate on something i said above I would be happy to, I just need help. Thank you again to anyone who is willing to leave a reply. Link to comment
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