Unicorn1307 Posted February 12, 2017 Share Posted February 12, 2017 Me and my bf started dating in year 9 and he broke up with me because being in a relationship was too much effort. Now I am in year 11 (16 years old) and I am going to go to college soon. My boyfriend reached out to me around the end of August and we were soon dating in September. Our relationship was going very well and he apologised about our previous relationship and he seemed very serious. During our relationship there were things that bugged me. He commented on a girls picture with love heart emojis and a peach emoji. I wasnt happy and I told him then he apologised. After this a month later I asked him how much he liked me and he said "7/10 I guess". I was offended and I told him. At this point in time we had been dating for 4 months. I told his friends about this but they said maybe 10/10 meant love and he wasnt at the stage of loving me yet. But I knew I did. I had fallen for this guy quickly and hard. Around this time too he had broken his leg and I went to visit him at his house to show my support and also cuz I wanted to get close to him too. Wen i got home from his house he said he wanted to kiss me eveytime he saw me. 4 months into our relationship, my friends tell me that a girl said if it wasnt for me and my boyfriend being together she would date him. I wasnt okay with this so I told my boyfriend to see wat he thought and to also get some reassurance he had no interest in her. This dosent work and he tells me that he was into her before and that shes good looking. I didnt speak to him after this and even though I told him you dont say that stuff to your gf he says im overreacting. We argued and he told me that he will be more sensitive towards me if im less emotional. I told him that ive handled scenarios where some girls wouldn't be okay with wat he has done if they were to date him, and he tells me to end it. I dont want to and i tell him i still want to be with him. I go to school the next day and I apologise for wat I said telling him I didn't mean it to come across that way. He tells me hes done his mistakes but I blew it out of proportion but he wants to take a break. I ask him how long the break is and he says he doesn't know. I get home the same day and ask him on text where I stand with him. He says to me "Nah. We dont have a connection. You're too emotional and its not just cuz ur a girl. You just need to let go". I have a feeling he will come back. I am his first girlfriend and he hasn't dated anyone else but has linked other girls in the past. He was my first serious relationship. Is this guy worth my time? Link to comment
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