Sarah Hummer Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 Hello in new here and have never posted anything before but I need others options on my situation. I am a single mom of two teenagers, a son and a daughter. Well my daughter is a cheerleader for basketball and I go to watch her cheer and the game. There's this girl on her team who's father was talking to her wanting to introduce each other. So I was very surprised because no one would ever talk to me at the games unless it's a " hello how are you" words. He eventually sat next to me and we started talking. Im 37 tall long blonde hair blue eyes and he is 45 and a police officer in my home town. I was so surprised he was interested in me being a police officer!! Im like "wow". So we started texting and calling each other starting Dec.22 of last year. We seem to like each other he's taken me out to dinner and we always sit next to each other at the games if and when he doesn't have to work. We have had sex 3 times, w/ me intionating the first time and have fun. I text him and tell him how much I want to kiss all over his body and touch him, im very turned on by him every time were together. He is the first guy that has wanted to meet me or show interest in me in years. This past September I got out of a 5 years toxic relationship. He was an alcoholic. So in very happy this new man wants me. The issue it seems is that now in showing him what he was showing me from the start that I want to be w/ him and it seems like he's drifting in a way as to not texting g me as much as he use to. I asked him the 3rd time when we were laying in his bed if he only wanted the sex and he said no. He said he wouldn't keep coming around me if he only wanted the sex and he's showed that to me. He's came over to my house on the days he wasn't working or busy, I be made dinner for him a few of the nights and he's ordered pizza a few times. My son had his friends over and he would bring his daughter along w/ my daughter and we all would hang out. But now I haven't talked to him in a day and a half sense he was my driver for when I needed sadation yesterday morning when I was getting pain shots in my neck. He dropped me off my place and haven't heard from him. Idk if in coming on too strong or what. I really like this man and not going to play games. He said he goes slow in new relationship so he doesn't get hurt. I understand that cause that's how I feel but I can't help wanting to touch him when I see him or hug kiss. I smoke but he doesn't so I make sure to brush teeth mouthwash gum perfume. I change my clothes right before he comes over and have a new jacket I wear that I don't smoke in. But I still smell like it a little bit he says. Im trying to look nice smell good for him again I really like this guy. I have mixed emotions about him not texting me. I hope he hadn't changed his mind on me. And it doesn't help that his ex wife knows about me and they have 3 girls together. She came to this past basketball game and every time I would look over she would be staring at me giving me dirty looks. I was there by myself and he was suppose to meet me there but had to work over and I thought he wasn't there because she was there. I need other ppls opinions and thoughts about this plz thanks you. TL;DR I really like this guy who showed interest in me and I am thinking he's regretting and trying to drift away now that he knows I want more. Link to comment
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