Andrew626 Posted February 10, 2017 Author Share Posted February 10, 2017 Don't worry...this will be forgotten in a month. Or even less thanthat two weeks. Just learn your lesson and don't keep naked pictures of yourself in emails where people can hack them or anywhere for that matter. They have a saying in my country "every interesting thing or wonder lasts only about three days". After that people get over it. You can easily claim it was photoshoped by your ex or her "boyfriend" or someone that hates you. Make sure you write a status update on facebook explaining someone photoshoped a clothed picture on purpose to embarrasse you After you do that, make sure you close that email account and your current fb account, they're probably all hacked. Get new ones with much higher security alerts or rest from emaills and from your facebook account all together for awhile.. Don't worry be happy.. We all have to deal with having horrible people in our lives from time to time... Yeah I talked to the police and they said the same thing Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted February 10, 2017 Author Share Posted February 10, 2017 Everything in my life is going horribly. I literally feel so messed up in my head and alone. First I have to spend 3k to get my van fixed, than my gf leaves me again after so many promises, now everyone has a naked picture of me. What the f*ck is going on?!? 😢😢😭 Link to comment
lovelyworld Posted February 10, 2017 Share Posted February 10, 2017 Everything in my life is going horribly. I literally feel so messed up in my head and alone. First I have to spend 3k to get my van fixed, than my gf leaves me again after so many promises, now everyone has a naked picture of me. What the f*ck is going on?!? 😢😢😭 I know saying it will be ok is much easier said than being done. But in the end it will all work out. In the end, you'll look back on all of this and you'll be proud of yourself for getting through this period of time. I'm sorry you're really going through all of this at once..seriously, it sucks. Dealing with a break up, work, and public humiliation all at once is really hard, but you will get through it. Your ex is horrible. We are all trying to forget an ex who have made us soooo many promises as well, so I know the pain. You feel betrayed, yet you still love them deep down, despite the fact that you KNOW they're awful and that you deserve better. Or maybe you hate her a lot, so just keep using hate at the beginning to forget her. The person who hacked your account is horrible, but people will soon forget about it. Anyone would feel embarrassed, so it's normal to feel so now. But I promise, everyone will soon forget about it...and I'm sure most who have received the pic are probably thinking of what a terrible person the hacker must be to do such a thing. Work wise, I hope you can get your van fixed...that's a big chunk of money. Do you have family members that can help out? Idk your situation completely. Update us...and we are all here with you! I know we can't do much but tell you it's going to be okay, but you have a support system here. Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted February 10, 2017 Author Share Posted February 10, 2017 I know saying it will be ok is much easier said than being done. But in the end it will all work out. In the end, you'll look back on all of this and you'll be proud of yourself for getting through this period of time. I'm sorry you're really going through all of this at once..seriously, it sucks. Dealing with a break up, work, and public humiliation all at once is really hard, but you will get through it. Your ex is horrible. We are all trying to forget an ex who have made us soooo many promises as well, so I know the pain. You feel betrayed, yet you still love them deep down, despite the fact that you KNOW they're awful and that you deserve better. Or maybe you hate her a lot, so just keep using hate at the beginning to forget her. The person who hacked your account is horrible, but people will soon forget about it. Anyone would feel embarrassed, so it's normal to feel so now. But I promise, everyone will soon forget about it...and I'm sure most who have received the pic are probably thinking of what a terrible person the hacker must be to do such a thing. Work wise, I hope you can get your van fixed...that's a big chunk of money. Do you have family members that can help out? Idk your situation completely. Update us...and we are all here with you! I know we can't do much but tell you it's going to be okay, but you have a support system here. I took out a loan to pay for it. And I literally feel a pain in my heart and wanna cry and give up Link to comment
Kissa Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 I took out a loan to pay for it. And I literally feel a pain in my heart and wanna cry and give up You can't give up, there isn't such an option in life, I mean there is but not for you. That is shaping you as a personality, everything you're going through makes you stronger. Your only choice is accept it, learn from it , move on and never make the same mistakes again. No matter what Sun is up every morning, chin up!!! Link to comment
Loralora Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 I took out a loan to pay for it. And I literally feel a pain in my heart and wanna cry and give up I think this van problem came at the right time eventhough it will cost it's going to keep your mind off this other stupid worthless crap going on in your life. Giving up is never an option...life is like this; sh*t happens we have to deal with it. You seem like a good guy and a hard worker, I bet a lot of people are probably jealous of you... When peoole are jealous or wish to be like you, they do things like this...just brush it off.. Keep going Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted February 11, 2017 Author Share Posted February 11, 2017 I think this van problem came at the right time eventhough it will cost it's going to keep your mind off this other stupid worthless crap going on in your life. Giving up is never an option...life is like this; sh*t happens we have to deal with it. You seem like a good guy and a hard worker, I bet a lot of people are probably jealous of you... Keep going I just feel like I can never just feel ok. Like if I felt ok and not sad or empty or humiliated I'd be able to chug along. I'm worried about my mom too she had a heart attack and has health issues. I'm sick of feeling this way Link to comment
Loralora Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 I took out a loan to pay for it. And I literally feel a pain in my heart and wanna cry and give up I just feel like I can never just feel ok. Like if I felt ok and not sad or empty or humiliated I'd be able to chug along. I'm worried about my mom too she had a heart attack and has health issues. I'm sick of feeling this way Giving up will only fufill the dreams of people who want to see you down. You don't have to worry about your mom as long as she went to the doctor and got the proper medication's she'll be allright. She should listen to all of her doctor's advice. If you feel low and lower...you might what to go see a psychiatrist they'll help you get through this acute phase. Antidepressants will help just for a short period of time...untill you pick yourself up and then slowly withdraw from them, but you can visit a psychiatrist and the'll tell you better... I strongly suggest you do visit a psychiatrist (I'm a medical student). Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted February 11, 2017 Author Share Posted February 11, 2017 Giving up will only fufill the dreams of people who want to see you down. You don't have to worry about your mom as long as she went to the doctor and got the proper medication's she'll be allright. She should listen to all of her doctor's advice. If you feel low and lower...you might what to go see a psychiatrist they'll help you get through this acute phase. Antidepressants will help just for a short period of time...untill you pick yourself up and then slowly withdraw from them, but you can visit a psychiatrist and the'll tell you better... I strongly suggest you do visit a psychiatrist (I'm a medical student). I was on antidepressants but they didn't seem to help. Maybe I should try a different kind? Link to comment
Loralora Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 What kind did you take? You might have to take them for a longer period of time for them to work.. Zoloft is pretty good...but I am not competent to prescribe you antidepressants since I am not a psychiatrist...if the ones your psychiatrist prescribed didn't work talk to him/her about it and he might change the dose, ask you to take them for a longer period of time, or prescribe a different kind.. But you really do need them...it's not shameful it's necessary.. You have to take them the exact way your doctor told you too and never skip a dose... You will be up in your feet in no time, we all need a little nudge every now and then.. Medication alone won't work without positive thinking and change of lifestyle. But medications will sure speed up the process.. Also you should never decide to quit taking antidepressants on your own. Once you feel better you go visit your psychiatrist again and they will tell you how and when to quit taking them. Good luck and don't give up. Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted February 11, 2017 Author Share Posted February 11, 2017 What kind did you take? You might have to take them for a longer period of time for them to work.. Zoloft is pretty good...but I am not competent to prescribe you antidepressants since I am not a psychiatrist...if the ones your psychiatrist prescribed didn't work talk to him/her about it and he might change the dose, ask you to take them for a longer period of time, or prescribe a different kind.. But you really do need them...it's not shameful it's necessary.. You have to take them the exact way your doctor told you too and never skip a dose... You will be up in your feet in no time, we all need a little nudge every now and then.. Medication alone won't work without positive thinking and change of lifestyle. But medications will sure speed up the process.. Also you should never decide to quit taking antidepressants on your own. Once you feel better you go visit your psychiatrist again and they will tell you how and when to quit taking them. Good luck and don't give up. I can't think of the name off the top of my head but the doctor said it was a mild medication. Maybe I need something a little stronger? Not sure how it works Link to comment
Loralora Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 I can't think of the name off the top of my head but the doctor said it was a mild medication. Maybe I need something a little stronger? Not sure how it works Make sure you talk to him about it. You can go to a different psychiatrist he might treat you in a different way that might have much better results with a different and maybe even stronger medication. Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted February 11, 2017 Author Share Posted February 11, 2017 Make sure you talk to him about it. You can go to a different psychiatrist he might treat you in a different way that might have much better results with a different and maybe even stronger medication. It will be alright. I went to my family doctor I've never been to a psychiatrist. I should definitely go Link to comment
Loralora Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 I went to my family doctor I've never been to a psychiatrist. I should definitely go Sometimes the same type of medication works different on different people. You should try changing it up. Yes you should definitely go to a psychiatrist. It will be much more effective you'll see. Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted February 11, 2017 Author Share Posted February 11, 2017 It will be alright. Sometimes the same type of medication works different on different people. You should try changing it up. Yes you should definitely go to a psychiatrist. It will be much more effective you'll see. I will try that thank you Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted February 11, 2017 Author Share Posted February 11, 2017 If I make it out of all this happy and okay.. I owe you guys so much. That's what I'm thinking. I'm fighting my own thoughts Link to comment
Loralora Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 If I make it out of all this happy and okay.. I owe you guys so much. That's what I'm thinking. I'm fighting my own thoughts You're well come. I am sure you will make it out of this happy and okay. If you have anxiety you should also talk to the psychiatrist about that. Aside from antidepressants he'll probably perscribe a calming drug. Probably xanax. Make sure you go tomorrow or these up coming couple of days. Be strong. Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted February 11, 2017 Author Share Posted February 11, 2017 You're well come. I am sure you will make it out of this happy and okay. If you have anxiety you should also talk to the psychiatrist about that. Aside from antidepressants he'll probably perscribe a calming drug. Probably xanax. Make sure you go tomorrow or these up coming couple of days. Be strong. All I know is this past few months have been hell. I just wanna feel okay Link to comment
Loralora Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 All I know is this past few months have been hell. I just wanna feel okay The sooner you go the closer you will be to feeling happy again I promise that Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted February 11, 2017 Author Share Posted February 11, 2017 Day 9 NC if anyone is wondering. Things are slowlyyy starting to settle down. I'm getting a grip on things but it's hard. Link to comment
Loralora Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 Day 9 NC if anyone is wondering. Things are slowlyyy starting to settle down. I'm getting a grip on things but it's hard. Good! Keep going...don't forget about your visit to the doctor.. Link to comment
07Sash Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 No offense but you seem to be in love with your own misery. Are there things that bring you joy? Is there something you would like to do to 'spoil' yourself? You seem very young and let me tell you, if you are going to react like this to every woman who leaves you then you are going to end up a total mess! They do not define you, you are who you ARE. You have something of value to offer and if they do not want it or cannot see it then it it their loss, not yours. You have self-love and self-esteem issues. Link to comment
Andrew626 Posted February 11, 2017 Author Share Posted February 11, 2017 No offense but you seem to be in love with your own misery. Are there things that bring you joy? Is there something you would like to do to 'spoil' yourself? You seem very young and let me tell you, if you are going to react like this to every woman who leaves you then you are going to end up a total mess! They do not define you, you are who you ARE. You have something of value to offer and if they do not want it or cannot see it then it it their loss, not yours. You have self-love and self-esteem issues. I'll agree that I have a problem. I'm not denying that. It was the longest relationship I've ever had by far. I guess it's just hard for me to be alone after all this time. And thinking of her being with someone else certainly doesn't help. I'm not in love with my own misery. It's the opposite I hate being miserable. Don't all people? Plus it doesn't help that everyone I know has seen me naked now Link to comment
luisannalui Posted February 12, 2017 Share Posted February 12, 2017 No offense but you seem to be in love with your own misery. Are there things that bring you joy? Is there something you would like to do to 'spoil' yourself? You seem very young and let me tell you, if you are going to react like this to every woman who leaves you then you are going to end up a total mess! They do not define you, you are who you ARE. You have something of value to offer and if they do not want it or cannot see it then it it their loss, not yours. You have self-love and self-esteem issues. Agree. I can swear that she might have noticed this about you and thats a big reason for someone step away from you. You do not show confidence. Andrew, this is not good. Calling her a b---ch and wishing her bad things is not going to ease your pain. Worst, saying you are better etc. If she didnt see it someone else will. But you need to stop feeling sorry about yourseld. You need to STOP and move on. Link to comment
luisannalui Posted February 12, 2017 Share Posted February 12, 2017 There is someone who can make you happy and it starts with yourself. Link to comment
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