Eyleia Posted April 28, 2016 Share Posted April 28, 2016 today i talk to my ex bf i ask him to send me message everyday coz i miss him soo mcuh he agree, he even tell me he love me and he miss me but he already have a gf ,, he said he dont love hes gf yet but he think about her all the time and always on her mind .. i dont know i am confused if i should take him back even thought he hve a gf ..... even though its hurting myself....... sorry about my bad english Link to comment
boltnrun Posted April 28, 2016 Share Posted April 28, 2016 How can you "get back" with him when he has a girlfriend? Didn't he dump you for her? And doesn't he live really far away? Did he suggest having two girlfriends? Why would you want to be Girlfriend #2? Link to comment
Eyleia Posted April 28, 2016 Author Share Posted April 28, 2016 i dont know what to do i am happy to get hes message coz i miss him seems like i dont care about if he hve a new gf or me at the same time .... i dont know wat to do ....im lost Link to comment
Pixels Posted April 28, 2016 Share Posted April 28, 2016 Stop being a knob-tease... Either tell him your intentions and snag a spineless d**k, or walk away and find someone with more integrity who's willing to put up with you. Or take time for yourself and grow from experience... Reflect on stuff, and carve your own path. If you're looking for a boyfriend, you're in a safe bet, short of being homeless... Depending on your standards... This is time you should be growing as a person, so focus on that... Link to comment
Robin2904 Posted April 28, 2016 Share Posted April 28, 2016 Stop telling him to message you. He broke up with you, he left you for this girl. Tell him to eff off and go NC. You're only hurting yourself by talking to him, he isn't serious about you don't allow him to treat you like that. Link to comment
Eyleia Posted April 28, 2016 Author Share Posted April 28, 2016 ok i do my best to not send him mesage or reply to hes mesage ;( Link to comment
boltnrun Posted April 28, 2016 Share Posted April 28, 2016 You control you. He doesn't. Link to comment
Robin2904 Posted April 28, 2016 Share Posted April 28, 2016 ok i do my best to not send him mesage or reply to hes mesage ;( I know its rough, but do you really want someone who's going to treat you like you're an option? If he really loved you he wouldn't have left you for someone else in the first place. You deserve better then someone who would do that to you. Be strong. You can do it! Link to comment
Hollyj Posted April 28, 2016 Share Posted April 28, 2016 today i talk to my ex bf i ask him to send me message everyday coz i miss him soo mcuh he agree, he even tell me he love me and he miss me but he already have a gf ,, he said he dont love hes gf yet but he think about her all the time and always on her mind .. i dont know i am confused if i should take him back even thought he hve a gf ..... even though its hurting myself....... sorry about my bad english If he loved you, he would be with you. He does not love you. Go NC, so that you will move on from this creep. he should not be reaching out, if he has a gf. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted April 28, 2016 Share Posted April 28, 2016 i dont know what to do i am happy to get hes message coz i miss him seems like i dont care about if he hve a new gf or me at the same time .... i dont know wat to do ....im lost Why don't you care? Where is your self respect? How would you feel if he were doing the same to you? It's really sleazy to pursue someone when they have a partner. Link to comment
Eyleia Posted April 28, 2016 Author Share Posted April 28, 2016 ur right sorry i am soo lose.. i dont know wat to do but thank u guys for help and understand me Link to comment
Eyleia Posted April 28, 2016 Author Share Posted April 28, 2016 ur right its rough and pain.... i once thinking commit suicde i cant take the pain anymore.. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted April 28, 2016 Share Posted April 28, 2016 I think that you should think of how you would feel if a girl were pursuing your bf. There are so many red flags with your relationship: You got involved with a 17 yr. old when you were 27- he was a child He live on the opposite side of the world - only met twice. this is not a relationship. You broke up 20+ times - this indicates very unhealthy relationship. after two tries it won't work. Why are you not looking for someone in Malaysia or Singapore? Link to comment
Hollyj Posted April 28, 2016 Share Posted April 28, 2016 ur right its rough and pain.... i once thinking commit suicde i cant take the pain anymore.. Oh my gosh, your life is worth so much more than some guy that lives on the other side of the world. Do you have support from your family or friends? Believe me, this will pass. Most of us have felt the hurt that you feel. The only way to get better, is to cut ALL contact with this guy, or your will prolong your pain. Link to comment
Eyleia Posted April 28, 2016 Author Share Posted April 28, 2016 ur right.. i was too blind to see Link to comment
Eyleia Posted April 28, 2016 Author Share Posted April 28, 2016 i do my best .. and ty Link to comment
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