Help.

[Abbykemp]

Ok, so something bizarre is happening to me - or is it bizarre? I'm very sexually attracted to my uni lecturer. I don't know if it is his position of power; his charisma, or the fact he gives off a kind of bad guy vibe. All I know is that it is becoming obsessive and I find myself daydreaming about us having sex in college. He is probably 30 years older than me.

 

The weirdest thing of all, is the fact that I'm taken, and very happy! I've had these kinds of infatuating feelings before for powerful women ( I'm straight so this is also odd) but never for guys. How can I stop feeling like this? I'm actually scaring myself.

[gaseousclay]

Its perfectly normal to have these thoughts, but for the sake of your relationship, its always best not to act on your impulses or mention them to your manfriend

[SooSad33]

Maybe if this is a common occurrence for you, you could consider some prof help? if it's concerning you and you've had this many times before.

Not sure- is up to you, as only you know IF it's affecting your daily Life ( with you bf)? etc.