Found out the guy I am dating is married - PLEASE read before you judge me.

[lostandhurt]

Make copies of everything and put them in a folder in a safe place just in case you need it later.

 

Make sure you go get checked for std's. Guys like this have a habit of lying and cheating so you have no idea who or what you have been exposed to. Plus it gives you peace of mind.

 

Trust your gut next time. Those "feelings: are surprising accurate.

 

Lost

[ohiogal1217]

Thanks again for the feedback. And no worries about STD's.. We used protection the few times we did have sex. He of course didn't want to, but I enforced it - no way in heck am I taking that kind of risk!

 

I do think the best course of action is to just ignore this thing entirely and act like he never existed.. let him go on with his life as long as it doesn't affect mine.

[lostandhurt]

Good for you.

 

It sucks to be open and honest only to find out the person you opened yourself up to was in fact a liar and a cheater. Don't let this one male (he is no man) sour you on men and dating, just use it as a lesson and reminder for next time.

Take some time to heal up a bit and one day soon you will meet a good man to share your life with.

 

Lost