Hollyj Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 Hon, this was really awful that he did this a week before the wedding. There was no thought about how this would affect you, and all the time you had put into a future with him in his country. Very selfish! One thing I don't understand: if he had a low-level job, how could he pay for so many things? In time, you will see him for who he is. I hope it is sooner, than later. Link to comment
lightinlantern Posted March 23, 2015 Author Share Posted March 23, 2015 Some money from his dad and some from himself. His job for me is not that low-paid. But i think he feel left behind by family and friends who are so successful... I have to accept that me and him were leaning on his dad's support too much. In the past 5 years, we traveled and only having fun without building important basis for having a family. I even had this stupid thought that his dad would help me anyway if i am in difficult situation. Somehow i learned a lot from this also. I was so immature and such a dreamer... I had this insecurity all along also that he won't be able to take care of me with out his family support but i thought i would find a job there eventually and then i don't have to lean on him. Link to comment
lightinlantern Posted March 23, 2015 Author Share Posted March 23, 2015 I mean it's just a start like 3-4 months... He has too many issues...maybe it's good to just let him be. Urgh! 😖😖 Link to comment
Hollyj Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 Yes. Not realistic. You need to be in the real world with someone, and not depend on others for support. Sounds like you both have some growing from this experience. Link to comment
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