brigirl92 Posted January 27, 2015 Share Posted January 27, 2015 I'm happy to say that I have kept myself pretty busy today, therefore my mind hasn't been on mind ex. But now that I'm catching some downtime, the thought of him is arising.Tomorrow will make a week since we broke up. These upcoming weeks are going to suck because Valentines Day and what would have been our 1 year anniversary are coming up. I'm sure I will be posting more frequently in that window of time because of that. Link to comment
Scoe141 Posted January 28, 2015 Share Posted January 28, 2015 Hang in there Bri. I know it's not easy, but it does get better. Just continue to keep yourself busy. A relationship I was in ended about a month ago and it's gotten so much better in that time. I hope that helps. Good luck. Link to comment
toby4 Posted January 28, 2015 Share Posted January 28, 2015 we are here anytime you need some people to vent to... heres a list of random sites to keep busy if you've got nothing to do: link removed link removed link removed link removed link removed link removed link removed link removed link removed link removed link removed link removed link removed link removed link removed link removed link removed link removed link removed link removed link removed Link to comment
No1 Posted January 28, 2015 Share Posted January 28, 2015 You are focusing on things that will only add to your hurt, like "Valentines day" and "1yr anniversery" is only going to hold you back. I know its hard to not focus on that but please dont, dont even mention it anymore. The more you do, the more you give weight to it and the more its going to hurt. Believe me, your hurt is justified, you are going thru a heartbreak that alone is worth crying, no need to add the other little facts to add to your pain. Remember the 3 Rs. Breathe, Relax and ummmm... Release... Link to comment
brigirl92 Posted January 28, 2015 Author Share Posted January 28, 2015 You're right. I need not to add weight to these dates. They are just 2 days out of 365 on the calendar, and I will get through them Link to comment
No1 Posted January 28, 2015 Share Posted January 28, 2015 Thats the way to look at it, you do it hour by hour at first, then once you win the majority of those battles then you move day by day then month by month. You will have your bad days (thats natural) the trick is not to let the bad moments get to you, they are only moments. Dont let those moments ruin your day or send you into the abyss again. Every day you will improve and get better, you will be happy again. Link to comment
JackJackxD Posted January 28, 2015 Share Posted January 28, 2015 Same here! Actually, my "anniversary" is in two days. It has been 4 months since my break up. I keep thinking of her more and more lately because it is getting closer and closer to this date. When I am occupied its fine, but when I'm daydreaming my thoughts just run all over the place with her in my mind. Link to comment
brigirl92 Posted January 28, 2015 Author Share Posted January 28, 2015 Same here! Actually, my "anniversary" is in two days. It has been 4 months since my break up. I keep thinking of her more and more lately because it is getting closer and closer to this date. When I am occupied its fine, but when I'm daydreaming my thoughts just run all over the place with her in my mind. Well I hope in two days that you keep yourself occupied with things that you enjoy. Have fun, go out with friends, binge watch Netflix. I actually plan on binge watching Netflix on my "anniversary" cause it's the perfect time waster. The daydreaming part really sucks. I'm trying to keep my brain active so it doesn't go idle. When it goes idle, all I can think about is him. We will get through this Link to comment
JackJackxD Posted January 28, 2015 Share Posted January 28, 2015 Well I hope in two days that you keep yourself occupied with things that you enjoy. Have fun, go out with friends, binge watch Netflix. I actually plan on binge watching Netflix on my "anniversary" cause it's the perfect time waster. The daydreaming part really sucks. I'm trying to keep my brain active so it doesn't go idle. When it goes idle, all I can think about is him. We will get through this The worst thing is I have to see her on that day because we both go to the same university. Yep, we will definitely get through this. Good luck to you! ^_^ Link to comment
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