bounddyy Posted October 28, 2014 Share Posted October 28, 2014 I've noticed a lot of women say "I love you but I want to try something else." or something similar. Why is that? Why can't girls be happy with what they have? As my ex said "I want to try something new." does that mean she wants to go F*** other dudes? May sound rude but I'm still get over her but I cant get that out of my head and I have read a few other relationships similar to that. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 28, 2014 Share Posted October 28, 2014 Things are not gender specific. So to say that mostly women do this would be incorrect. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted October 28, 2014 Share Posted October 28, 2014 Men say this just as much ... how they want to "sew their wild oats." It's not a gender specific thing. It just means the dumper wants to see other people. Link to comment
bounddyy Posted October 28, 2014 Author Share Posted October 28, 2014 Things are not gender specific. So to say that mostly women do this would be incorrect. sorry didn't mean to sound sexiest all I've read here and there have been women. Well if not women why can't people be happy with what they have? For me my ex let another dude get close, I'm assuming it's that. Link to comment
mhowe Posted October 28, 2014 Share Posted October 28, 2014 Because they aren't happy with what they have. Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted October 28, 2014 Share Posted October 28, 2014 Are you trying to have committed relationships with ladies who aren't ready for that? I've never said it, and never had it been said to me. I think if someone did, I'd find it really lame. That has nothing to do with love. That is just someone who wants to play the field and isn't ready for a relationship yet. SO ok, let her do her thing! Link to comment
bounddyy Posted October 28, 2014 Author Share Posted October 28, 2014 Are you trying to have committed relationships with ladies who aren't ready for that? I've never said it, and never had it been said to me. I think if someone did, I'd find it really lame. That has nothing to do with love. That is just someone who wants to play the field and isn't ready for a relationship yet. SO ok, let her do her thing! In my case we both were looking for a long term committed relationship but in the end I guess not because she said she saw it was "trial and error", but I'm getting past her I Just wanted some clarification. Because they aren't happy with what they have. Thanks. Link to comment
mhowe Posted October 28, 2014 Share Posted October 28, 2014 Not trying to be simplistic, but it is as simple as that. If someone were happy and fulfilled in their relationship, if their partner shared their same goals and values, if there was love, trust and respect --- then they wouldn't leave the relationship. Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted October 28, 2014 Share Posted October 28, 2014 ^Sometimes, maybe a lot of times, it is better not to try and make things complicated. Simplest answer that works is good enough! Link to comment
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