ohheyyy89 Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago. i did the usual thing, grieved for about a week. started to feel better.. I do feel somewhat happy again, being able to enjoy the things i used to and discover new likes..but i cant stand the fact i still think about my ex.. we had a very unhealthy toxic relationship and it wasnt good..for either of us. but i still think about the good times and sometimes i think about it more than the bad, almost as if the bad didnt exist..but it did, and it outweighed the good. i know i want to eventually date again, of course..i just dont know when it would be the "right time". i dont want to confuse my loneliness for happiness. i want to find love again but im scared if i go on casual dates it will just break me, i wish i knew what to do . without damaging myself. help? Link to comment
True Joy Posted July 16, 2014 Share Posted July 16, 2014 Bro.. move on like ur subject says. u know deep down she wont keep u happy in the long run. This pain happens to the best of us so just take charge of urself and dooo the right thing Link to comment
ohheyyy89 Posted July 16, 2014 Author Share Posted July 16, 2014 thanks! its such a up and down feeling. one minute im happy , next i think about the old stuff. and yeah i realize the pain happens to almost everyone! time heals all right?? Link to comment
fireflies Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 It's natural to think about your ex, but the more proactive time you take to nurture your interests and forge fun, healthy friendships with others, the sooner you'll get over him and the greater the chances you'll meet someone who is right for you. Link to comment
dasnico Posted July 20, 2014 Share Posted July 20, 2014 I'm in the exact same boat as you, almost down to the month. My feelings fluctuate so intensely that sometimes I don't know what I'm really feeling. As they say, time heals. I hope we are both in a better state of mind soon. Link to comment
ohheyyy89 Posted July 21, 2014 Author Share Posted July 21, 2014 yes, i do understand its natural. me being honest with myself is helping me too. not trying to brush it off like im 100% ok. but i agree. im gaining so many healthy friendships already because of the time ive given myself. thank you so much Link to comment
ohheyyy89 Posted July 21, 2014 Author Share Posted July 21, 2014 yeah sometimes i feel as if i cant function. like my mind just starts going crazy. but then i accept the fact the break up happened and start thinking positive thoughts. but yes, i hope we are both motivated enough to get through this. time heals all Link to comment
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