leighleigh9812 Posted November 19, 2013 Share Posted November 19, 2013 Hey everyone!!! I need some advice. My fiancee and I have been together for almost 2 years. He is still friends with his exes mother and I don't have a problem with that except he tells her everything!!! He has been telling her that I gripe at him to much, that I cheated on him(which I did) But we over came that situation and that it is all my fault that he went to jail. Why do you think that he keeps telling her all this and won't directly come to me about it. He went to jail for not paying fines. Link to comment
mhowe Posted November 19, 2013 Share Posted November 19, 2013 Because he is an idiot? Because he has no boundaries? Because he thinks of her as his mommy? Because he cannot take responsibility for his own actions? The bigger question is why are you engaged? Link to comment
metrogirl Posted November 19, 2013 Share Posted November 19, 2013 He sounds extremely immature. Just curious, what kind of unpaid fines lands someone in jail? Link to comment
amipushy Posted November 19, 2013 Share Posted November 19, 2013 Because he is an idiot? Because he has no boundaries? Because he thinks of her as his mommy? Because he cannot take responsibility for his own actions? All of these and one more... Because he want his ex to know? Link to comment
amipushy Posted November 19, 2013 Share Posted November 19, 2013 All of these and one more... Because he want his ex to know? Tell him in no uncertain terms to stop telling her/them your business! Link to comment
leighleigh9812 Posted November 19, 2013 Author Share Posted November 19, 2013 Because he is an idiot? Because he has no boundaries? Because he thinks of her as his mommy? Because he cannot take responsibility for his own actions? The bigger question is why are you engaged? I just found out yesterday that he was saying all this. He is jail at this moment. He did some stupid stuff a couple years ago and didn't pay his fines so they sentenced him to jail time. I love him to death but don't know what to do. Everyone is thinking its my fault he is in jail and taking it out on me. Link to comment
mhowe Posted November 19, 2013 Share Posted November 19, 2013 You need to walk away. He is a liar, and a fraud. And, you need new friends. How in gods' name can him not paying his fines and going to jail be your fault? It makes zero sense. Link to comment
leighleigh9812 Posted November 20, 2013 Author Share Posted November 20, 2013 You need to walk away. He is a liar, and a fraud. And, you need new friends. How in gods' name can him not paying his fines and going to jail be your fault? It makes zero sense. Thanks guys. I just needed other people from somewhere else to give me advice and I think I found what I'm looking for. Link to comment
abitbroken Posted November 20, 2013 Share Posted November 20, 2013 I just found out yesterday that he was saying all this. He is jail at this moment. He did some stupid stuff a couple years ago and didn't pay his fines so they sentenced him to jail time. I love him to death but don't know what to do. Everyone is thinking its my fault he is in jail and taking it out on me. It wasn't "stupid" - it was probably a felony. People don't get thrown in jail for an unpaid parking ticket. I would break the engagement. You can do better. And you haven't known him long enough to be married. I would return the ring, too. Better no one has to gripe about you keeping it. Link to comment
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