emma34 Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 Here is my opinion to all of the people who have been dumped. As I have been the dumper, I haev found this extremely frustrting the way my ex acts. 1) The dumpee must realize, that if they wanted you back, they would tell you. Do not take little things, like being nice, as a sign they want you back. 2) The dumper often feels guilty and selfish for breaking up with someone. thereforeeee another reaosn they may be nice to you. 3) Do not punish yourself, or focus on your faults. They dumped you because they were the first one to realize you weren't right for eachother. You would have eventually figured it out. 4) Don't make it harder on yourself by pleading for a 'friendship' relationship you know you could never handle. 5) Do not involve friends in trying to get the person back (hense my ex asked my best friend to convince me to go back out with him for a hundred dollars...) 6) There is a time and place to cry and grieve. Don't act pathetic. Although you may be in alot of pain, share that with your friends, etc. don't bother letting them know how much pain you are in long after the break up. 7) Know that if they broke up with you because of a something serious in your life, don't change it to get them back, change it for you. That's all I can think of right now... any thoughts? Quote Link to comment
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