mrlee123 Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 My gf broke up with me last week because shes confused and doesnt know what she wants apparently, she said she doesnt want to be in a relationship right now. I went on a night out saturday night and i saw her in a club.... i was sitting down still feeling crap thinking about her i looked up and there she was with her sister and friends just staring at me. Once i looked and saw her she walked away her sister stayed and hugged me, i then feeling low went at my ex huged her and talked about the laugh we had texting earlier that morning. After that i walked away to leave her, every time i saw her in that club then she always blanked me like i wasnt there, once she looked on me gave me a faint smile and i winked but after that she just ignored me and went with her friends. I felt horrible, just wondering now does that mean she just now wants me out of her life for good and to never talk to me again. I havent spoke to her in 2 days now and i was thinking to leave it for a week see if she replies, but i doubt she will.... she has a sister who she always hangs round with and shel never be bored to think about me. I just cant get her out of my head and move on. Link to comment
dion333 Posted February 12, 2013 Share Posted February 12, 2013 nothing you can do, but give each other space? focus on yourself. sadly, you will have to go through the pain of break up. pull away from her..it will make you more attractive anyway. DON'T get caught in you chasing her game. that will create more pain and entanglement Link to comment
Deejmonster Posted February 12, 2013 Share Posted February 12, 2013 Its smart to continue moving on. There was a break up and you two are no longer obligated to talk to each other, negotiate terms, or even try again. Its just the way things are. I think that she is being polite and civil with you because she most likely does care about you and wants to smooth over this rough patch as best as possible. It doesn't mean that she is sending you subliminal hints about anything. Things take time to die down. I would suggest finding a new chill spot if you know she frequents there often... it will save you in the end. Just keep chugging along. There isn't much you can do. Link to comment
mrlee123 Posted February 12, 2013 Author Share Posted February 12, 2013 Yeah, i was going to text her the end of the week and just say, for her to not feel awkward towards me because the last thing i want is for us not to be friends. But i dont know if thats a very bad idea.... i was just gonna text her that and then leave it. Link to comment
dion333 Posted February 13, 2013 Share Posted February 13, 2013 You could say that..BUT THEN YOU MUST 'DISCONNECT' Link to comment
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