Do you ever let yourself be played on purpose?

[dark angel9]

Say, you are seeing a guy and he is telling you some lies and making promises that he doesn't plan to keep, just to get you to sleep with him a few times.

 

You also want something casual and have almost no emotional investment.

 

Do you go along with his "game"? Do you call him out on the lies?

[Minx2012]

If you are not too concerned about catching any diseases, then sure, go along.

 

However, to answer your question : No, I do not just " go along " with men who lie. I don't see any pros / benefits.

[lavenderdove]

Don't you think you time and energy is spent elsewhere other than on a liar who only wants sex?

 

'Calling him out' won't do anything either... he'll just laugh and move on the the next girl, which he would do in the end regardless.

[Ggii]

I understand what you mean. Sometimes, you are just kind of addicted to the guy and it is a game to change him (and hope you will be able to tame him and get him to love you). I always have that problem.

[dark angel9]

Don't you think you time and energy is spent elsewhere other than on a liar who only wants sex?

 

'Calling him out' won't do anything either... he'll just laugh and move on the the next girl, which he would do in the end regardless.

 

Because I am sick of being single and there is nothing better out there. I miss sex and company. Even if it leads nowhere.

 

I am still looking and not taking it seriously.

[RedDress]

Nah... telling obvious lies and making promises everyone knows he won't keep is disrespectful. He's basically calling you stupid. For me, that's a turn-off.

[elcie]

It's easy, when you first become sexually involved with someone, to say, "I'm OK with something casual.....I'm in control of this."

 

The reality can be very different. I think you're playing with fire and you'll probably get burnt.

[Angel Irulan]

No way to going along with his games! You get played by everyone else after that because he's going to brag to all of his friends that he was able to stick his penis in your vagina and you were stupid enough to go along with his lies. Dump this dude and find someone for else to play with!

 

Angel

[ose]

is disrespectful to you as a woman.. you need to dump him, he will never respect you if you accept it..