faiakeima Posted September 27, 2004 Share Posted September 27, 2004 ok so i asked a girl to a dance on friday and today she said that her parents were going to make her babysit her cousins(due to her date before had dumped her so she told her parents that she was dateless and so they volunteered her for the job). later today i asked her if she would like to go see a movie or something on wednesday and she responded by saying that she had to be a student teacher at her church and that she would talk with her parents about trying to get out of church to go with me. we are good friends and this was going to be our first outing. so can anyone offer up their opinion . i trust her so. Link to comment
under_the_pressure Posted September 27, 2004 Share Posted September 27, 2004 Well...maybe she really is busy and can't do anything. Ask her again, if she says she can't...then I have a feeling you might be. under* Link to comment
faiakeima Posted September 27, 2004 Author Share Posted September 27, 2004 do you mean that i should ask her to go out like on another day Link to comment
under_the_pressure Posted September 27, 2004 Share Posted September 27, 2004 Yeah, ask her one more time see if she has a reason why she can't go. If so, I think you are getting blown off. Sorry...I'll go on a date with ya. under* Link to comment
faiakeima Posted September 27, 2004 Author Share Posted September 27, 2004 no offense but won't that sound like i am coming off too pushy. Link to comment
under_the_pressure Posted September 27, 2004 Share Posted September 27, 2004 Well just casually say something like, "well we still haven't got to go out yet, want to do something [date goes here]" Just try something, casually. under* Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted September 27, 2004 Share Posted September 27, 2004 Okay you asked her to go out on two separate occasions and she said no. Its time to take the hint, you cant be the only one making an effort here if she doesnt give you some indication (physical indication not vocally) that she wants to go out with you then you need to just drop it. Link to comment
ForAnother Posted September 27, 2004 Share Posted September 27, 2004 Yeah. I would say back down now. It takes two to tango. If she were interested she would find out when a good time would be. If I were you, just duck and run. ForAnother Link to comment
ruth1978 Posted September 27, 2004 Share Posted September 27, 2004 hi i don't think it would sound too pushy for you to ask her again, i believe she's busy and that's why she's not been able to see you. leave it a couple of days and then ask her what she's up to next weekend and does she fancy doing anything. see what she says then, also it gives her plenty of notice to be able to plan something with you and not make other plans. Link to comment
faiakeima Posted September 27, 2004 Author Share Posted September 27, 2004 by the way to "day walker" when i asked her to the dance she said yes and gave me a pretty nice hug and said some nice stuff so i know she is somewhat interested. Link to comment
crizlee Posted September 27, 2004 Share Posted September 27, 2004 day_walker seems to be really pesimistic. he told me to give up on this one chick also. maybe he's had a similar experience sometime... or always. lol jk! Link to comment
bzborow1 Posted September 27, 2004 Share Posted September 27, 2004 well here's the thing, if a woman is interested in you but can't make it...SHE'LL RESCHEDULE. You can ask 1 more time but if it's not a yes or "i'm busy...but can we reschedule" just stop calling her. Link to comment
faiakeima Posted September 27, 2004 Author Share Posted September 27, 2004 lol i agree about the pessimism cause all the girls so far have told me to keep trying. i guess the genders really do think differently about dating. oh well tomorrow when i see my friend ill ask her if she got out of teaching the munchkins and if she says no then ill ask her about friday and if she says no then i guess were back to being friends. Link to comment
ForAnother Posted September 27, 2004 Share Posted September 27, 2004 Yep, I agree. If she wanted to she would have rescheduled... or at least tried for that matter. ForAnother Link to comment
faiakeima Posted September 28, 2004 Author Share Posted September 28, 2004 well i have one small question that i just thought of... she's a big time christian being that she's teaching at a church... but i am a man of science... i am not one of those people who worships satan or burns crosses i just believe in darwin and such... so does anyone think we can still be in a relationship if we are on the opposite sides of the religion spectrum. btw i hope i dont affend anyone if i do im sorry. Link to comment
ForAnother Posted September 28, 2004 Share Posted September 28, 2004 I am nihilist. My ex was religious. We had quarells when it came accross moral issues and such. Usually we avoided those conversations (which are my favorite conversations to have)... so it was tough from time to time, but I just had other friends to fill that gap. Its ok its just some issues come up from time to time. It makes it difficult but nothing to prevent you from wanting to be with her. ForAnother Link to comment
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