thanks everone for you kind words. but i have yet another question or two. first do i call her my gf already. two i am thinking about asking her out to dinner or something like a week before the dance, is this a good idea. yet again thank you guys for your help you see i am like the lowest guy on the popularity totem pole and she is like really high up there and this is my first relationship ever and so im like frikkin nervous as can be.