vix8 Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 your not confident, and that is why you haven't had sex. men are way more shallow then women, so be lucky. woman like a confident man who is successful, protective, romantic, ect. also because you are the guy.. you probably need to go after the woman, there not just going to come to you like that, especially if you have no confidence. also what kind of woman are you even going for? no offence but if you are as unattractive as you say you are, you should probably be looking for woman with the same attractiveness rating, especially since you don't have confidence. Link to comment
iwishiknew Posted February 17, 2012 Author Share Posted February 17, 2012 Yes I do have confidence. Having no confidence is not the reason why I never had sex. I would like to see you in my shoes and see what it is like being me. You don't know what it is like being me at all. You might think it is easy but it is not. It is easy for you because you are normal and not short and disfigured with mhe. I can go and talk to any girl I see at the store with no problems. I can talk and have good conversations. I never go for hot or attractive girls, I go for average and below average who share about the same interests as me. Link to comment
duke nukem Posted February 19, 2012 Share Posted February 19, 2012 I guess me because I don't actively seek one night stands? Sure I see girls that get me going, but I only really want to do that sort of thing with a girl that I share a love connection with. Guess I can thank my ex for making me see things that way. But don't worry about it man, sex isn't what's important. To me at least. Diff'rent Strokes. Also of note, I don't know why there's such an emphasis on sex for younger people now. Is it really that important at a young age? I know the OP s age, this is just me rambling. Link to comment
scklbad Posted February 19, 2012 Share Posted February 19, 2012 vix's post was ignorant..i believe u are confident..but girls ar judgmental and rude princesses unfortunately bro.Yes I do have confidence. Having no confidence is not the reason why I never had sex. I would like to see you in my shoes and see what it is like being me. You don't know what it is like being me at all. You might think it is easy but it is not. It is easy for you because you are normal and not short and disfigured with mhe. I can go and talk to any girl I see at the store with no problems. I can talk and have good conversations. I never go for hot or attractive girls, I go for average and below average who share about the same interests as me. Link to comment
iwishiknew Posted February 21, 2012 Author Share Posted February 21, 2012 vix's post was ignorant..i believe u are confident..but girls ar judgmental and rude princesses unfortunately bro. Yeah, I know there are a lot of judgemental and mean girls out there. It is hard finding that one girl, who would give me a chance and not judge me because I'm different. Link to comment
In the Dark Posted February 22, 2012 Share Posted February 22, 2012 Yeah, I know there are a lot of judgemental and mean girls out there. It is hard finding that one girl, who would give me a chance and not judge me because I'm different. What do you consider is so different about you that women in general are seeing you as not dateable? Link to comment
somethngwrng Posted February 22, 2012 Share Posted February 22, 2012 Do you have a friend, who is good with women, that could possibly help you with getting dates through internet dating? Just a thought. S/he could show you your pitfalls in even getting the first date... once you learn how to GET the dates in the first place, it's a matter of going on enough of them to mutually attract someone. Link to comment
Leya Posted February 22, 2012 Share Posted February 22, 2012 vix's post was ignorant..i believe u are confident..but girls ar judgmental and rude princesses unfortunately bro. uhm, is your quote/view not rude and judgemental??? There are rude, mean people on BOTH sexes. To make a sweeping statement like that is rude and ignorant. I certainly would not want to date a man who would say such a sweeping statement about my entire gender! Link to comment
tmtex Posted February 22, 2012 Share Posted February 22, 2012 Do online dating, you will have sex numerous times Link to comment
scklbad Posted February 22, 2012 Share Posted February 22, 2012 how many girls are there who are involuntarily non intimate with somone? girls can find SOMONe to kiss them or have sex with them.....uhm, is your quote/view not rude and judgemental??? usually if a girl claims she is involuntarily celibate it is bcuz she ''only'' finds bad guys who want to have sex with her and not be in a relationship...well that is more than the involuntarily celibate guys who nvr get any purely physical offers or relationships can say. There are rude, mean people on BOTH sexes. To make a sweeping statement like that is rude and ignorant. I certainly would not want to date a man who would say such a sweeping statement about my entire gender! Link to comment
scklbad Posted February 22, 2012 Share Posted February 22, 2012 no he won;t.Do online dating, you will have sex numerous times Link to comment
iwishiknew Posted February 26, 2012 Author Share Posted February 26, 2012 What do you consider is so different about you that women in general are seeing you as not dateable? I'm poor and I do not have a lot of money. I'm only 5'2, below average height for a guy. My chin and cheek bones extrude out. My fingers are deformed, my left arm is bowed with a crooked wrist. And both of my legs are slightly bowed. Do online dating, you will have sex numerous times Online dating is a big joke. I did online dating before for almost 10 years and I never met one girl. And online dating will not get me sex, it is nothing but a looks game and a waste of time. no he won;t. Correct! online dating will not get me sex at all. Link to comment
iceblitz Posted February 27, 2012 Share Posted February 27, 2012 I'm 33 years old and still a virgin. I have always wanted to have sex since I was a teen but that never happened. I'm now 33 getting older and wondering if I will ever have sex? Or will I end up being a kissless virgin for life? The only way I think I can get sex is going to an escort or the bunny ranch. I do not want to do it that way, I want the normal way but I do not have physical attraction or sexual attraction to make it happen. Does anyone else feel like this? I used to feel like you once but then I realised a few things about women, which ill share with you. Firstly no matter what anyone says, any woman like's a man who is confident(no matter if you look horrid, women care less about looks than men and more about who they are), if you don’t like the way you look (which is what I didn’t like, because I was overweight), do something about it. I got myself thin, fit in gym and got myself a hair style. Just do whatever you can to give yourself that boost to increase your confidence. Secondly, be honest, women would rather be with a man who’s honest, believe me I tried this whole “tooting my trumpet crap”, but a woman responds to someone who is truthful. More importantly just focus on being in a meaningful relationship, sex is like a wet wank with her screaming, it means more when it’s with someone you love. I would advise you get new threads and hit a bar. Shiz even join a dating website, if you see a girl you like on the street you like ask them out, the worst they can say is “No” so what harm will that do, if they say “no” your exactly where you was before you asked. Anyways, I hope this has helped and the best of luck to you my friend. Link to comment
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