Feel like breaking NC

[EgoJoe]

Don't even know what I would say. Been months, blah blah blah. Don't want to think about, dream about or remember her and yet I feel like talking to her and have nothing to say.

 

Ain't life grand? I'm going to a damn meeting.

 

Mirror posting this in hopes of a pep talk.

[abitbroken]

Try to remember why you broke up and why you weren't right for eachother.

 

Or just go out and take a walk.

 

Or snap a rubber band against your wrist.

[FreeFallFeelin]

You don't want to know what your ex might tell you. She quite possibly might say "I'm seeing somebody". If you're like the rest of us on this board, hearing something like that would crush you. Trust me, you don't want to learn now, what you might have to make yourself forget later.

[ewr]

Contact them in the "post here instead of contacting your ex" thread instead.

[EgoJoe]

I don't want to talk to her or see her. It was a weird urge. I'm strong willed but even I get these damn stupid urges.

[pippy longstocking]

has it passed joe ?

 

has the urge gone ?

 

I must admit breaking NC is not one of my downfalls ( everything else is though ha) ...but yesterday ...nearly ....very very nearly .

[Melting]

I break it about once a week, can't help myself I am a fool.

 

Be strong and over ride the urge, it truly will be worth it in the long run.

[EgoJoe]

It has not passed but I have not given in. It is weird because I actually DO NOT want to talk to her.

[Lansing]

Yeah man, I always see you as one of the "strong" guys when you post in the forums so it is good that even you are tempted to contact your ex because I don't feel so bad

 

But, like you said, you have nothing to stay to her and don't want to talk to her. You don't call people that you don't want to talk to