euphoria24 Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 I have been dating a man for a month now and last night I was so happy , I went over to his house and he made dinner. Everything was fine , and then he got a call from someone and told me that his friend was coming over. OK, I asked him 'who' his friend was and he got really quiet and weird , ( he usually talks a lot) and then he said ' we've...' then he said nevermind and did not tell me who he friend was. My mind started racing, and on my own I came to the conclusion that his friend was probably someone who he had slept with..i.e. I flilled in the blanks. "we've "done it"! What else could it be? Everything got weird and quiet for the rest of the night and although he said he was happy that I was there, I feel like we have sort of broken up now, because I am not going to contact him now, because I feel really really weird that he did not tell me who this 'friend' was. Am I overreacting, who was this friend, what should I do, should I be mad that he wouldn't tell me who his friend was or am I just being insecure. Thanks for your advice. Link to comment
camus154 Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 Uh....and where does bisexuality fit into this again? Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 Has he told you he is bisexual? Link to comment
euphoria24 Posted January 5, 2012 Author Share Posted January 5, 2012 NO he did not tell me. But when I asked who his mysterious friend was he said "we've..." then changed the subject. The only thing that can fit into that sentence is "we've DONE IT" what else could he say in that sentence. This is really painful for me if it is true. Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 I think you are jumping so far ahead it's ridiculous. We've got some stuff to sort out. We've been in jail together. We've been arrangin flowers in our spare time. We've formed a crime fighting group. To go from "We've..." to breaking up with the guy because he's obiously bisexual is... were you cheated on by your last partner? Link to comment
pl3asehelp Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 We've been friends for a long time. We've just gotten back in contact after a big fight. We've not seen each other in ages. Ad infinitum. What an active imagination you have. Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 I'd also like to ask - does he even know you've broken up with him already? Link to comment
Eocsor Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 Oh my god!!! I think I'm bisexual. I was leaving the office yesterday and i was talking to my girlfriend on the phone and she asked me if I was going out with my friend to the bar and I said "we've"... and we got cut off so I couldn't finish my sentence and now I think I'm falling for my buddy. We've must be code for I'm bisexual. I feel terrible now that I know. Link to comment
euphoria24 Posted January 5, 2012 Author Share Posted January 5, 2012 I have not broken up . Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 Then why are you asking if you have? Link to comment
euphoria24 Posted January 5, 2012 Author Share Posted January 5, 2012 I feel a lot of tension and insecurity, like I am never going to see him again, like he is not going to call me ever again because I acted so aloof and disengaged last night. Like he is going to break up with me, by just not ever calling or contacting me again. To me that would be a break-up without actually 'talking' about breaking up. Link to comment
Flyingpiglet Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 So did his friend turn up? Are you just 'dating' or are you in an exclusive realtionship? Don't jump to concluions... New relationships are bumpy enough without jumping to conclusions Call him, talk to him! Link to comment
LDRohnos Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 Playing Mad Libs with a relationship is a very, very bad idea. You might be too young to know what Mad Libs is so: link removed Link to comment
sentencedtoagony Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 Oh my god!!! I think I'm bisexual. I was leaving the office yesterday and i was talking to my girlfriend on the phone and she asked me if I was going out with my friend to the bar and I said "we've"... and we got cut off so I couldn't finish my sentence and now I think I'm falling for my buddy. We've must be code for I'm bisexual. I feel terrible now that I know. LOL! Awesome Link to comment
KenCasanova Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 what a weird relationship lmao. Link to comment
Honey1 Posted January 6, 2012 Share Posted January 6, 2012 This post confuses me..... Why would you let someone stop mid sentence? Why not ask "We've what babe? What were you about to say?" Could it have been "We've been friends for a long time" "We've lost touch since you and I started dating" I'm betting you're pretty young. Link to comment
TomboyMS Posted January 6, 2012 Share Posted January 6, 2012 I feel a lot of tension and insecurity, like I am never going to see him again, like he is not going to call me ever again because I acted so aloof and disengaged last night. Like he is going to break up with me, by just not ever calling or contacting me again. To me that would be a break-up without actually 'talking' about breaking up. All of these are YOUR issues. Link to comment
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