CuriousAboutIT Posted December 28, 2011 Share Posted December 28, 2011 Should I think anything of these? She called me repeatedly last night telling me she wishes I was there, that she wants me to come see her on vacation. She called this morning, never apologized but just laughed about it. We were together for 7 years, high school sweethearts. Broke up 2 months ago, she ended it, 2nd breakup (first was in Summer 2010, lasted 2 months). I don't know what to think. All I know is I want it back. Link to comment
mhowe Posted December 28, 2011 Share Posted December 28, 2011 Nope. Drunk dials mean nothing. If you can't say it sober, it's not worth anything. She proved it by laughing it off. What would make you think Round 3 of this relationship could work? Link to comment
CuriousAboutIT Posted December 28, 2011 Author Share Posted December 28, 2011 There's things I need to change with my approach to the relationship. That's why I know it can change. Link to comment
doiiiieeezie Posted December 28, 2011 Share Posted December 28, 2011 Next time, (and there will be), hang up or tell her to call you when she is sober. If she can't handle a real conversation then you will need to distance yourself from her. As well, why did she break up with you? Link to comment
mhowe Posted December 28, 2011 Share Posted December 28, 2011 Well, then you have to change them before you get back w/ her. And she would need to see that you have changed, cause words are cheap. Link to comment
CuriousAboutIT Posted December 28, 2011 Author Share Posted December 28, 2011 We broke up because she felt I did not prioritize her well enough. She felt outside of work, and I work longer (11-13 hour days) hours, I wanted to hang out with my guy friends over her. I see how I pushed her away, but I know I can change. I just want to take a more mature approach, more seriously committed one, to the relationship. I know what I need to change. We had stints of NC but she reached out wishing I was well and also later to say merry xmas. I told her how much she meant to me after xmas and she said she just wasn't ready yet. Link to comment
Eocsor Posted December 28, 2011 Share Posted December 28, 2011 Well, until you hear from her she is ready you've got nothing. So just get on with your life as if she isn't coming back and whatever happens, happens. just don't put your life on hold for something that may not happen. Link to comment
Blondiegirl Posted December 28, 2011 Share Posted December 28, 2011 Ahhh gotta love the drunk dials. I am not a country fan but one of my friends in the USA loves this song that goes It's a quarter after one, I'm all alone and I need you now Said I wouldn't call but I lost all control and I need you now And I don't know how I can do without I just need you now I think when we drink we tend to start thinking about old exes and wishing they would come back but sadly most of the times they never do because simply they have moved on and when you drunk dial you only wind up making a fool of yourself and your ex thinks is he/she crazy? It is over! Link to comment
Deejmonster Posted December 28, 2011 Share Posted December 28, 2011 Dont think into it and I wouldn't do anything.. she is looking for attention. Link to comment
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